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Hope, Health, and Happiness. Would you like to live your life with less stress and more happiness? Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, more resilient you.
Stress is a powerful force in life. It can bring about illness, destroy relationships and cause chaos. There is not a one-size-fits-all coping strategy for dealing with stress in your personal life or at work. Our goal is to help you address the sources of stress, take care of yourself during stressful times, and to find ways to reach out to those around you for support. The Work Smart Live Smart flash briefing focuses on helping you to Harness Your Energy, Build Your Resiliency and Protect Your Mental Health!
Hope, Health, and Happiness. Would you like to live your life with less stress and more happiness? Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, more resilient you.
Stress is a powerful force in life. It can bring about illness, destroy relationships and cause chaos. There is not a one-size-fits-all coping strategy for dealing with stress in your personal life or at work. Our goal is to help you address the sources of stress, take care of yourself during stressful times, and to find ways to reach out to those around you for support. The Work Smart Live Smart flash briefing focuses on helping you to Harness Your Energy, Build Your Resiliency and Protect Your Mental Health!
Episodes

Tuesday Sep 14, 2021
EP 1088 – Stress Still The #1 Lifestyle Risk
Tuesday Sep 14, 2021
Tuesday Sep 14, 2021
Stress (83%), lack of physical activity (49%), and obesity (41%) are often cited as the top three health risks.
Stressed out workers incur healthcare costs 50% higher than the norm while 60% of lost workdays each year can be attributed to stress
Research indicates that stress is still the number one lifestyle risk and that employers and employees couldn’t be any farther apart when reporting the top sources of stress in their workplace.
For the Employer: the number one source of stress for their employees is a Lack of work-life balance.
While for the Employee: they identified inadequate staffing as the number one cause of stress.
Leaders need to address the main sources of stress for their employees and this can only be done if they have been clearly identified for your particular workplace. Until you have talked to your employees or surveyed them for their opinions, you may be addressing the wrong issues.
The programs that you implement should address the sources of stress at the corporate level and promote skills and resiliency at the individual level. Ensure that the right strategies are considered for your unique situation. By specifically addressing your challenges and stresses, by utilizing strategies to maintain your health during stressful times, and by building a supportive network, you can find the right tools for coping with the situations that you face.
If you like today’s wellness tips, let me know. You can leave me a review on amazon or through your #alexa app.
Looking for resources to build your healthy workplace? Check out my top 10 tips under Resources and Courses at worksmartlivesmart.com

Monday Sep 13, 2021
EP 1087 – Celiac Disease
Monday Sep 13, 2021
Monday Sep 13, 2021
It is invisible.
It is hard to live with a disease that no one around you can see. Celiac Disease is one of those illnesses that no one else can see, but living with this serious genetic autoimmune disease has a profound impact on the way that you live your life.
Celiac Disease it the only autoimmune disease with a known trigger – Gluten. When a person with Celiac eats gluten, their body’s immune system begins to attack their small intestine. This can lead to lactose intolerance, vitamin and mineral deficiencies, infertility, miscarriages, cancer, and diabetes.
Accidental exposure puts those with Celiac Disease at risk and 70% report being accidentally exposed, even while on a gluten free diet.
Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Bringing Awareness To National Celiac Awareness Day.
I have a couple of friends who have Celiac Disease. What many people don’t know is that it is a serious genetic autoimmune disease, not part of a latest diet trend.
I know that it must be hard for them. Most restaurants may carry some menu items that are gluten free, but they often are not good at ensuring that there isn’t cross-contamination.
Many people with Celiac Disease have missed school or work because of hidden or unknown ingredients or because of this cross-contamination.
If gluten touches a celiac patient's food, he or she can no longer safely eat it. So show support. Be an advocate and definitely don’t encourage them to ‘just take a bite’ of something with gluten! Having one bite causes as much harm as eating the whole thing.
If you like today’s wellness tips, let me know. You can leave me a review on amazon or through your #alexa app.
Looking for more ways to build your resiliency, take my free on-line resiliency test at worksmartlivesmart.com under the resources and courses tab.

Sunday Sep 12, 2021
EP 1086 - Day For Encouragement
Sunday Sep 12, 2021
Sunday Sep 12, 2021
I find the transition from summer into fall a tough one. I feel draggy, and sometimes not very creative or motivated to work on my business.
What gets me kicked into gear is connecting to those around me. My friends and colleagues who cheer me on and get my creative juices flowing.
Encouragement, as they say, goes straight to the heart. In fact, the word itself comes from a combination of the prefix en which means “to put into” and the Latin root cor which means “heart”.
We all could use a little encouragement and a few words of inspiration now and again.
Here are today’s tips for building our resilience and celebrating National Day of Encouragement.
Encouragement lifts up someone when they are down, so be deliberate and reach out today to someone who could use a boost.
Send a card, give a call, or send a text to a colleague who may be struggling.
Provide reassurance and inspiration to the people around you. Be deliberate in your words to others.
Encouragement matters.
Simply having others believe in you is enough to keep you moving forward in tougher times.
If you like today’s wellness tips, let me know. You can leave me a review on amazon or through your #alexa app.
Looking for resources to build your healthy workplace? Check out my top 10 tips under Resources and Courses at worksmartlivesmart.com

Friday Sep 10, 2021
EP 1084 – Stop Suicide
Friday Sep 10, 2021
Friday Sep 10, 2021
“A permanent solution to a temporary state.”
We often don’t hear about those that died by suicide. Because we don’t talk about it, those around us can suffer in silence, unaware of the supports that may be available to them. There is little funding because there is no public outcry. But the issue of suicide touches us all – whether directly or indirectly.
Today is World Suicide Prevention Day and it is celebrated on September 10th each year as a way to improve education about suicide, disseminate information, decrease stigmatization and, most importantly, raise awareness that suicide can be preventable.
Around the world, every 40 seconds someone dies by suicide.
Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating World Suicide Prevention Day:
Read and learn as much as you can about suicide – it’s prevalence, the signs and symptoms, and personal stories from survivors. Understand the pain that those who even consider suicide as an option, must be in.
Be open and not afraid. Don’t be afraid to ask directly about the issue of suicide.
Know the resources that are available to help.
Suicide is a difficult issue to discuss, but it is even a more difficult issue to experience. Let’s help support those who are in pain so that they can find a better solution to living a peaceful and purposeful life.
If you like today’s wellness tips, let me know. You can leave me a review on amazon or through your #alexa app.
For more information on coping with mental health issues, sign up for one of my on-line courses at worksmartlivesmart.com under the resources and courses tab.

Thursday Sep 09, 2021
EP 1083 – Opposites
Thursday Sep 09, 2021
Thursday Sep 09, 2021
Did you ever play ‘Opposites’ in school? Any time you were asked a question you had to give the opposite answer. You wore your clothes the opposite way around, and you ate your lunch in the opposite order.
Opposite day is a day to have fun and be silly. Especially as you kick it back up into high gear after summer vacations. Some celebrate Opposite Day a month after Christmas, other’s today…the idea is just to add some fun to your life.
Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Opposite Day:
Adults can get in on this silly holiday.
Try having dinner for breakfast and breakfast for dinner.
Eat, write and use your mouse with your non-dominate hand.
If you are the super achiever, ask for help.
If you are a procrastinator, try getting the tough stuff done first.
Flip that button-down shirt around and wear opposite coloured socks and shoes.
Just be sure to let your family, friends and colleagues know that you are celebrating Opposite Day. Otherwise, it could get very confusing for everyone around you.
Have a great day. Sorry, I mean hello, how are you?
If you like today’s wellness tips, let me know. You can leave me a review on amazon or through your #alexa app.
Looking for more ways to build your resiliency? Take my free on-line resiliency test at worksmartlivesmart.com under the resources and courses tab.

Wednesday Sep 08, 2021
EP 1082 – Children and Suicide
Wednesday Sep 08, 2021
Wednesday Sep 08, 2021
Children do not attempt or die by suicide
False. In fact, 3% of our children are suicidal at any given time and our rates are increasing among our youth. It is the second leading cause of death among our children ages 15-19 and studies show that 1 in 7 students have seriously considered suicide.
Identifying those children at risk for suicide can be problematic in that communication skills may be limited, emotional development may lead to spur of the moment decision-making, and support networks limited.
It is estimated that about 80% of people give some sort of clue that they are considering suicide. Behaviourally, children may give away their prize possessions, or they may lose interest in their hobbies, activities, school-work and friends.
Verbally, children may communicate a sense of hopelessness around their situation, self-hate or self-esteem statements such as ‘everyone would be better off without me around’, or they may express more physical complaints.
Though most people give some sort of clue, it is important to remember that it is not a family member’s ‘fault’ if that clue is not recognized or given significance at that time. There is not a parent out there who is superhuman, totally tuned in, and able to tell the future.
Giving support, providing information and alternatives, and finding the appropriate helping strategy is not easy but resources are available.
Children do die by suicide even in the most supported situations. However, as caregivers and parents we can look for the clues and not be afraid to address the issue of suicide.
If you like today’s wellness tips, let me know. You can leave me a review on amazon or through your #alexa app.
For more information on coping with mental health issues, sign up for one of my on-line courses at worksmartlivesmart.com under the resources and courses tab.

Tuesday Sep 07, 2021
EP 1081 – Back To School Chaos
Tuesday Sep 07, 2021
Tuesday Sep 07, 2021
Back to school and the kick-off of fall can be exciting and full of energy. It may also be dreadful for both children and parents. Not many parents cherish the thought of forgotten textbooks, missing permission slips, making lunches or lost backpacks. For many children, success is dependent on their ability to effectively manage the stress of the morning routine. For both parents and children, having to deal with morning chaos can throw everyone off course.
So what can you do to reduce your stress?
Enlist everyone’s help in establishing a smooth morning and evening routine. Decide what needs to be done, who can do it and who is responsible for it.
Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Reducing Back To School Chaos:
Post a calendar of all weekly or monthly events and activities. Predictability helps to relieve anxieties. By seeing what needs to be accomplished for the week ahead, everyone can plan to complete tasks accordingly.
Do not over-schedule. If it starts to look crowded on the calendar, it is probably going to increase the difficulty in transitioning.
Establish a ‘drop zone’. Have a set place for everything so that it is all easily and predictably found.
And finally, keep a sense of humour. This is not the time to panic, get angry or impatient. It sets an awful flavour for the rest of the day.
If you like today’s wellness tips, let me know. You can leave me a review on amazon or through your #alexa app.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com

Monday Sep 06, 2021
EP 1080 – Just Do It
Monday Sep 06, 2021
Monday Sep 06, 2021
Can you find time?
Stop looking. You will never find it. It isn’t lost.
Sometimes we lose time because we are procrastinating. This could be because jobs or tasks are difficult or time consuming, but it is not procrastination if the job doesn’t rank in importance or urgency.
So why else do we procrastinate?
Perfectionism – have you ever wanted something to turn out ‘just right’, that you got overwhelmed by the details and couldn’t move forward? There are 3 books waiting to be written, but the thought of them being less than spectacular keeps me from sitting down to write.
Fear of failure, success, or finishing – Like the examples above, sometimes procrastination is also fueled by the fears that we have.
Dislike task or person – I hate tackling my monthly finances. It wouldn’t be so bad if I actually did them monthly. However, I procrastinate, and I end up doing them every 3 months or so. I get frustrated and annoyed which makes me want to put the task off even more.
Too tired – I need my sleep. If I am worn out, all those little tasks are easy to draw out or avoid all together.
So here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Do It Day:
Find the answer to ‘What’s In It For Me”. Why is this task/decision important? What will I achieve once it is completed?
Use positive self talk to keep you moving forward.
Watch out for time gobblers.
Reward yourself. Make it fun.
If you like today’s wellness tips, let me know. You can leave me a review on amazon or through your #alexa app.
Looking for more tips to build your resiliency? Look for my book on Amazon called Stress Out. 52 Weeks To Letting More Life In

Sunday Sep 05, 2021
EP 1079 – Be Late
Sunday Sep 05, 2021
Sunday Sep 05, 2021
Procrastinators Rejoice!
Today it is okay to be late.
I hate being late. But I am not quite as bad as my dad, who arrived early and often unexpectedly for almost everything. He even had a hard time with me being the last one to arrive for my wedding.
So Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Late For Something Day:
While it is okay to be late for somethings, it is not okay to be late for everything.
It is not okay to be late for a meeting, especially if others are depending on your input. It is not okay to be late in paying your bills. And if grandma was making dinner, it was most definitely not okay to be the last one to the table.
There is an incredible pressure to meet challenging deadlines, and to regulate our lives by tightly defined schedules and calendars. Wouldn’t it be nice to just stop for a little bit and see what happens?
Be Late For Something Day encourages you to take a step back from your schedule and intentionally be late for something. You may find that people can still function without you, and maybe all of the stuff that you fuss about is not all quite as important as you thought.
If you like today’s wellness tips, let me know. You can leave me a review on amazon or through your #alexa app.
Looking for more ways to build your resiliency? Take my free on-line resiliency test at worksmartlivesmart.com under the resources and courses tab.

Saturday Sep 04, 2021
EP 1078 – The Secrets To A Healthy Happy Marriage
Saturday Sep 04, 2021
Saturday Sep 04, 2021
I find it sad that we are often more polite to strangers then we are to the people we love the most.
Statistics show that about ninety percent of adults will get married at least once in their lives, but many of them get disappointed because in the end, it is not the stuff that fairy tales are made of.
I think that I have a healthy marriage.
Is it perfect? No. We are loud, and we go to bed angry, but not very often.
We know that a happy, healthy marriage is created. It doesn't just happen.
So here are my Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Health Marriage Month:
Know that marriage is more than love and passion.
It's about commitment, respect, and believing in your future together. Marriage is not fifty-fifty. It's two people giving all of themselves to each other.
And finally. never compare your marriage to others. What you see on the outside is not always what is on the inside.
Looking for more health and wellness celebrations? Check out my wellness calendar under resources and courses at WorkSmartLiveSmart.com.
If you like today’s wellness tips, let me know. You can leave me a review on amazon or through your #alexa app.

Friday Sep 03, 2021
EP 1077 - Self-Care During Challenging Times
Friday Sep 03, 2021
Friday Sep 03, 2021
You may be like me and feeling that the challenges and changes that we are currently facing are taking their toll on your energy and your mental health. We have buckled down, and hunkered down.
We will never feel at ease or in control if our task list is so long that it doesn’t allow for a little downtime.
A lack of self-care causes more stress. Self-care during challenging times is critical. Without it, we can not be resilient. We need to give ourselves permission to do less and to focus on our needs.
To take care of ourself is restorative. People who focus on self-care are happier and have more stamina to get more accomplished.
Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Self-Care Awareness Month:
This pandemic is taking a toll on our work, our economy, our social lives, and also on our mental health.
These are challenging times and now is the time to be kind to yourself. Now is the time to focus on what you can do, not what you can’t do.
Look for ways to engage in self-care that works for you. If you hate yoga, don’t force yourself to workout in an on-line yoga class. You don’t need the extra pressure, guilt, and challenge.
Self-care is about focusing on your priorities and including yourself in those priorities.
When you find yourself reacting negatively, remember the acronym STOP.
Stop
Take a couple of Deep Breaths
Observe what is happening
Proceed by recognizing your fears, frustrations, guilt, sadness, hunger, tiredness etc and take an appropriate action by making amends, satisfying the need, diverting, re-energizing, refocusing, or relaxing.
Test out a variety of calming techniques. There is no “one-size-fits-all” approach to relaxation, meditation, or mindfulness.
Taking a mini-break will remind you that you’re worth it. Make a list of 10 self-care activities that resonate with you. Try to take at least one mini-break a day where you incorporate a self-care activity from your list.
If you like today’s wellness tips, let me know. You can leave me a review on amazon or through your #alexa app.
For more tips check out my book on Amazon called Stressed Out: 52 Weeks To Letting More Life In.

Wednesday Sep 01, 2021
EP 1075 – Enthusiasm Makes Ordinary People Extraordinary
Wednesday Sep 01, 2021
Wednesday Sep 01, 2021
Enthusiasm makes ordinary people extraordinary.
Enthusiasm originally meant inspired by a god.
So how can you be enthusiastic about your life?
Be present. Be involved.
Make active choices about your life including what priorities you will focus on and what activities can wait.
This is how ordinary people achieve extraordinary lives.
They enthusiastically go after what is important to them regardless of whether it is a business idea or cheering for their child sport’s team.
Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating National Enthusiasm Week
Examine your priorities
Be clear about what areas of your life are your priority.
Don't let other people determined your priorities.
Watch out for the peter pan syndrome of jumping from one flavour-of-the-day to the next.
Working at our priorities isn't always fun and it can be frustrating and hard work.
Being enthusiastic is pushing forward, in spite of the tough times.
If you like today’s wellness tips, let me know. You can leave me a review on amazon or through your #alexa app.
Looking for more ways to build your resiliency? Take my free on-line resiliency test at worksmartlivesmart.com under the resources and courses tab.

Tuesday Aug 31, 2021
EP 1074 – Preventing Overdose Through Education
Tuesday Aug 31, 2021
Tuesday Aug 31, 2021
The tragedy of overdose is preventable. While street drugs often come to mind, an overdose can happen with many different types of drugs, from alcohol to opioids, in all segments of the population.
Worldwide, almost 200,000 people die prematurely due to drugs every year—the majority due to the use of opioids.
Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Promoting International Overdose Day:
Recognizing the signs and symptoms of overdose, can help prevent death and injury.
These include:
Unresponsiveness or unconsciousness
Passing out or a “slumped over” posture
Shallow or irregular breathing, or no breathing at all
Choking or gurgling sounds
Purple lips and fingernails
Vomiting
Seizures
Loss of coordination
Panic, paranoia, or symptoms of psychosis
Confusion or disorientation
An overdose is a medical emergency that requires immediate medical attention. Always call 9-1-1 if you suspect someone has overdosed.
Education and preparation can be one of the most important things that you can do to help prevent an overdose from happening or leading to death.
For more information on how to recognize the signs and how to be a supportive family, friend, or co-worker, sign up for my on-line courses at worksmartlivesmart.com under the resources and courses tab.

Monday Aug 30, 2021
EP 1073 – Roast It To Relax
Monday Aug 30, 2021
Monday Aug 30, 2021
Sitting by the campfire…making smores and roasting marshmallows. There is nothing like the total relaxation of a peaceful night by the fire.
Did you know that the marshmallow originally came from a marsh mallow plant or that it started as a candy in Ancient Egypt?
The end of the August tells us that summer is unofficially coming to an end. It is important that we get ourselves ready for the busyness of the fall, but it is equally important to ensure that the summer holidays are not forgotten.
Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating National Toasted Marshmallow Day:
Visualization is a powerful stress management strategy. You may not be anywhere near a campfire, roasting marshmallows, but your mind can certainly take you there when you need a moment to relax. Funny thing is that if your mind can take you there, your body will follow and will become as relaxed as if you were actually there.
There still may be time to plan one last campfire before it is back to school and back to work. Break out the marshmallows and enjoy!
And if there is no time left for a relaxing campfire, break out the marshmallows anyway, and play a game of Chubby Bunny with your friends and family…not sure what it is…add marshmallows to your mouth one at a time to see how many you can stuff in while still being able to say “Chubby Bunny”! Disgusting, but good for a belly laugh!
If you like today’s wellness tips, let me know. You can leave me a review on amazon or through your #alexa app.
Looking for more tips to build your resiliency? Look for my book on Amazon called Stress Out. 52 Weeks To Letting More Life In

Sunday Aug 29, 2021
EP 1072 – Salt And More Salt
Sunday Aug 29, 2021
Sunday Aug 29, 2021
Living on a farm and being the girl of the family meant that I made dinner. Dinner was always a big meal and usually was meat and potatoes based. Salt on the meat. Salt in the water to boil the potatoes. I can remember getting into a load of trouble for not remembering to salt the water.
Today, we salt very little of our food. I have even given it up on my most favourite of foods – corn-on-the-cob. However, there is salt in all most all of the foods that we buy and in most cases way too much.
We take in way more than our allotted 3 grams per day. On average about 3-5 times this amount, and processed foods are the largest culprits.
Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Less Salt Day:
Read the labels and get an idea of how much salt is in the foods that you buy.
True or False? If you’re trying to watch your sodium intake, eating a can of soup at lunch is a good alternative to a hamburger and fries. It may be, but one cup of soup can have up to 1300 milligrams of sodium.
Try more herbs – experiment and see what flavours you can add to your meats and soups
Awareness is the first key to health and wellness. The second is making good choices. Start small by reading and comparing and then choosing the less salt option.
If you like today’s wellness tips, let me know. You can leave me a review on amazon or through your #alexa app.
Looking for more ways to build your resiliency? Take my free on-line resiliency test at worksmartlivesmart.com under the resources and courses tab.

Saturday Aug 28, 2021
EP 1071 – At The End Of The Rainbow
Saturday Aug 28, 2021
Saturday Aug 28, 2021
Have you lost a beloved pet?
I can remember growing up on the farm and being surrounded by dogs and cats, along with baby cows and horses. But they weren’t really my pets.
It wasn’t until my husband and I bought a house and brought home our first little border collie puppy. We were in love with this little crazy puppy and for 14 years she was a part of our family.
She was there to greet each of my boys when we brought them home from the hospital. She protected them from getting too close to the pool fence by nudging them aside. She kept my kitchen floors amazingly clean.
And then one day she could no longer get up to greet us, eat the food that we set out for her, or wag her long tail to show her appreciation and we knew it was time to say goodbye.
If you have ever had a pet, you know how tough this was on all of us.
So here are today’s tips for Building Resiliency and Celebrating Rainbow Bridge Remembrance Day:
The pain of loss is real. As each person travels through their grief, it is important to remember the companionship and comfort that our pet provided to us.
I love the image of the rainbow bridge where your beloved pet waits for you to join them. For me, it helped me to deal with my grief.
On this day of remembrance, it is okay to take a moment to say thank you or feel gratitude for all that your pet did to bring love into your life.
Take time to enjoy memories of your pet. Look through pictures and celebrate your time together.
If you like today’s wellness tips, let me know.
Looking for more ways to build your resiliency? Take my free on-line resiliency test at worksmartlivesmart.com under the resources and courses tab.

Friday Aug 27, 2021
EP 1070 – Just Because
Friday Aug 27, 2021
Friday Aug 27, 2021
Do you over plan?
Do you get stuck in the details rather than getting down to it?
While planning is important, so is being mentally agile. Being mentally agile is being able to shift and turn in a different direction when a challenge or opportunity arises. It is not about going after the next shiny object, but rather being flexible and able to go with the flow of the day.
Practising spontaneity keeps you mentally agile and it can be beneficial to your mood and well-being.
So Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Just Because Day:
This day is a chance to do something without rhyme or reason. To be spontaneous. Just Because.
So what kinds of things can you do…Just because?
Go for a walk
Have an ice cream cone
Stay in your pj’s
Dress to the nines
Buy a friend some flowers
Call a friend just to say hi
Watch puppy videos
Spontaneous people tend to not stress out over much and tend to be happier.
Spontaneous people make the best of every situation they face, and take full advantage of everything life has to offer. They understand that life goes on, whether it goes as planned or not.
They’re less disappointed when things don’t turn out the way they expected, as they will simply move on to whatever life has in store for them next.
If you like today’s wellness tips, let me know. You can leave me a review on amazon or through your #alexa app.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com

Thursday Aug 26, 2021
EP 1069 – Be Kind And Change The World
Thursday Aug 26, 2021
Thursday Aug 26, 2021
How can you make the world a better place?
The next evolutionary step for humankind is to move from man to kind.
Martin Luther King Jr. is quoted as saying that we have flown the air like birds and swum the sea like fishes, but have yet to learn the simple act of walking the earth like brothers.
We need to counterbalance the negative things we read and hear about every day. On the Be Kind To Humankind Week site, the organizer posts, “People need people; it’s as simple as that! In order to have the power to make the world a better place, we must first change our attitudes for the better. We can create our own good news if we choose to do so!”
So Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Be Kind To Humankind Week:
So this week, try to focus on the little things that are kind and good.
Show someone that you care - offer to drive someone who has trouble getting around.
Drive respectfully – try letting another car go ahead of you instead of racing ahead of them
Spread kindness - make a donation to a charity you love
Offer a helping hand – offer to babysit or pet sit
Treat others well – make it a point of saying please and thank-you or holding the door for the person behind you
Say something nice - if you notice something great about someone, give them a compliment!
Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world. Desmond Tutu
If you like today’s wellness tips, let me know. You can leave me a review on amazon or through your #alexa app.
Looking for more ways to build your resiliency? Take my free on-line resiliency test at worksmartlivesmart.com under the resources and courses tab.

Wednesday Aug 25, 2021
EP 1068 – Before Kiss and Make Up
Wednesday Aug 25, 2021
Wednesday Aug 25, 2021
We all have spats from time to time with our significant other. And when we do, we often make it a point to kiss and make-up.
Kiss and Make-Up: means to become friendly again after a fight or disagreement
Did you know that the purple hyacinth means ‘I’m Sorry – Please forgive me’?
One site posted a list of apology notes to send with those flowers.
I like this one…The words are hard to say, but I hope that these flowers pave the way…I’m sorry.
So Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Kiss and Make-Up Day:
Spats and disagreements do occur, but it is important that you never resort to dirty fighting, which includes name-calling, or cursing. Use I statements, and focus on problem-solving.
Beside being able to say sorry and send flowers, the Interpersonal Reactivity Index suggest that empathy is the building block of successful interpersonal relationships.
It suggests these strategies:
First, after your angry feelings resolve, ask yourself whether there isn’t some value to your partner’s side.
Take a moment to feel your partner’s pain. Often, when we watch a movie or read a good book, we can put ourselves into the character’s role. After a disagreement, try putting yourself in your partner’s role.
Finally, if you have lost control in the midst of your argument, try to regain your composure.
Relationship skills come in a variety of shapes and sizes, and it’s possible that you (and your partner) aren’t as empathic as you could be. Before having to resort to the kiss-and-make up” strategy, find more ways to be in tune with your partner’s thoughts and feelings.
If you like today’s wellness tips, let me know. You can leave me a review on amazon or through your #alexa app.
Looking for more tips to build your resiliency? Look for my book on Amazon called Stress Out. 52 Weeks To Letting More Life In

Tuesday Aug 24, 2021
EP 1067 – I Choose Wellness
Tuesday Aug 24, 2021
Tuesday Aug 24, 2021
I’ll take care of myself when….
Do you neglect your own needs while you take care of others or are busy making a living?
Many of us put our own needs at the bottom of our to-do list and over time, we may actually forget what self-care looks feels like.
Research shows that self-care helps manage stress and promotes happiness and can help you to be more productive and better able to care for the needs of others.
Today’s Tips for Building Resiliency and Celebrating National Wellness Month:
It is time to focus on our overall wellness, which includes self-care in all five aspects of health:
Physical
Emotional
Social
Spiritual
Intellectual
Small, daily acts of self-care lead to a lifetime of wellness.
Look for small changes that can positively impact your health, like adding more water to your daily intake, taking a moment to breathe deeply, writing in a gratitude journal, connecting with a friend that you haven’t seen in a while, or watching a video on national geographic on the migration of turtles.
To celebrate your commitment, post a picture on your social media feed of you with a sign that says “I choose wellness. #wellnessmonth”. Inspire others to create their own healthy habits.
If you like today’s wellness tips, let me know.
Looking for more tips to build your resiliency? Look for my book on Amazon called Stress Out. 52 Weeks To Letting More Life In