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Hope, Health, and Happiness. Would you like to live your life with less stress and more happiness? Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, more resilient you. Stress is a powerful force in life. It can bring about illness, destroy relationships and cause chaos. There is not a one-size-fits-all coping strategy for dealing with stress. Our goal is to put a plan together that helps us to deal with the sources of stress, take care of ourselves during those stressful times, and allows us to reach out to those around us for support. The Work Smart Live Smart flash briefing focuses on helping you to Harness Your Energy, Build Your Resiliency and Protect Your Mental Health!
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TIP 2409 – Neighbours Helping Neighbours
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April is often seen as the month to focus on spring cleaning, but it is also the month to reach out and help your neighbours.
When I was young, our family dairy barn burned down. Neighbours came to help in the rebuild, and brought food to feed the construction workers and volunteers. It was just something that was done. Neighbours helping neighbours.
National Rebuilding Month is a campaign to highlight the connection between our homes and health. It encourages everyone to take steps to be safer and healthier at home.
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Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating National Rebuilding Month:
These past couple of years have certainly seen many people looking for ways to work at home, feel happier in their homes, and to relax in their homes.
National Rebuilding Month is also an annual month-long call to service, culminating with National Rebuilding Day, the last Saturday of the month. It encourages you to look out for those who need a helping hand in your neighbourhood. Volunteers eliminate health and safety hazards and help their neighbours live safely and independently in their homes.
Adopt a neighbour and provide the critical repairs that they need to stay safe in their home.
Maybe you are not handy, but you have a green thumb. Help a senior work their flower beds or pull weeds.
Provide a bag of groceries or a bag of pet food to alleviate a bit of the financial pressures someone may be experiencing.
As houses are transformed, neighbourhoods and communities find hope. And HOPE is so critical right now in helping us to look towards the future with joy and energy.
Want to check out more health and wellness related celebrations? Visit my wellness calendars under the resources and courses tab at worksmartlivesmart.com
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2 days ago
TIP 2408 – Burning Out The Babysitter
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I find it very sad when I see someone who was dedicated and enthusiastic about their job, leaves because of burnout.
This is often the case in the childcare profession.
Burnout is a state of fatigue, while feeling frustrated, overworked and unappreciated. It combines physical, emotional and mental symptoms.
Workplace stress and burnout is very high in the childcare profession due to the stress of managing multiple children and their behaviours, the relationships with parents and peers, and often there is a lack of recognition and appreciation for what should be seen as such an important role in our society.
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So Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Childcare Professionals Day:
As a childcare professional be aware of the problem and recognize the danger signs of burnout, then take care of your health.
Learn long-term and short-term relaxation and stretching strategies.
Be realistic about goals and expectations. Set limits.
Develop strong communication skills and strategies for dealing with children, parents and peers.
Develop activities that are separate from work.
As a parent whose child is looked after by a childcare professional:
Remember that parenting isn`t easy at the best of times, neither is looking after someone else`s child. Not everything will be perfect or dealt with exactly as you would like it to be.
Let go of minor annoyances and deal appropriately and respectfully with those issues that must be addressed.
My children are many years out of their daycare setting, but they still have warm feelings for their childcare providers when they see them in person or when we look at pictures from the past. So to JoAnne, Clare, Sara, Kelly, Julie, and Darlene – many thanks for taking good care of my boys.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com
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In our early adult years we spent so much effort on prevention, who knew that conception could be so difficult, or that Stress Decreases Your Chances Of Conceiving.
For more than a couple of years my husband and I tried to conceive a child. At that time we never heard that Stress Decreases Your Chances Of Conceiving. We endured months and months of taking temperatures, doctor visits, disappointments, crying, trying new medications, testing of all kinds and grieving. It was a horrible roller-coaster ride. We were not alone in our struggles. Infertility rates in Canada are increasing with roughly 1 in 6 couples experiencing fertility issues.
While we were going through this struggle, we told very few people, especially our families.
Stress grew as the months passed.
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Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency Increasing Your Chances of Conceiving and Celebrating Infertility Awareness Week:
Find Ways To Relax. I know that you may hate hearing this, but it is one thing that you can do.
Be Nutrition Wise. Our nutrition impacts the way in which our bodies function, both efficiently and effectively.
Aim For Emotional Balance. Watch out for negative emotions such as anger, guilt, or resentment, which many women may feel at some point in their journeys to conceive.
Laugh More. Laughter can take the edge off of a stressful day.
Take Advantage of Support and Counselling.
Keep the Romance Alive While Trying to Conceive.
If you know someone who is experiencing fertility issues, let them know that you understand how difficult this is for them and that you are there to listen to their frustrations, their fears, and their disappointments.
For more information on coping with mental health issues, sign up for one of my on-line courses at worksmartlivesmart.com under the resources and courses tab
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4 days ago
TIP 2406 – Shh!
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It’s quiet. Well, almost. There is the ticking of the clock, the rattle of the furnace, the birds chirping outside of my window and my computer humming along.
For some this silence is uncomfortable or we feel guilty, so we turn on the TV, though we aren’t really watching. It is important in the chaos of everyday living that we take a few moments and shut out as many sounds of the world and just be. It is here that we can rest, that we can rejuvenate, that we can be creative, and we can reflect.
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Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Noise Awareness Day:
Pay attention to the noise you make and respect your neighbour’s right to peace and quiet.
Turn down the volume two notches on your radios and personal stereo systems with headphones.
Turn down the volume one notch on your television and turn it off during dinner.
Do NOT honk your horn, except in the case of imminent danger.
Replace noisy activities with quiet ones such as taking a walk.
Wear adequate hearing protection if you must be in a noisy environment and if you are concerned, get a hearing screening test done.
Try to observe one minute of no noise everyday.
Looking for more tips to build your resiliency? Look for my book on Amazon called Stress Out. 52 Weeks To Letting More Life In
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5 days ago
TIP 2405 – Mother Earth
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I am very glad that the snow is gone and that my flowers are trying hard to poke their heads up to the sun. A few years ago we celebrated Earth Day while we were on vacation. My boys were looking forward to the release of the Disney production of Earth, while we were at Disney. It inspired them to do our annual clean up of the roadside where we live. They learned that each of us can do a little and we can all have an impact.
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Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Earth Day:
Be a Smart shopper. Buy what you need, not what you want. Consider renting and borrowing things that are seldom needed
Walk, cycle, car pool and use public transportation
Choose local foods that are in season and support local food producers
Wash full loads of clothes in cold water and hang to air dry
For summer air conditioning, set your thermostat to 24°C or 25°C
For winter heating, set your thermostat to 19°C or 20°C
Take short showers instead of baths
Don’t discard. Donate, reuse and recycle items before throwing them into the trash
Earth Day isn’t about a single action you can do to support a healthier environment. Instead, Earth Day is seen by many as a day to renew a personal commitment to support a healthier environment. Though my family and I have a long way to go, every little bit helps as we move to live more responsibly with the environment.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com
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6 days ago
TIP 2404 – I’m A Princess
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I want to be a princess. Not the entitled kind, but the kind who works at being secure, confident, and powerful.
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Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating National Princess Week with me:
One site listed 10 Qualities of a Healthy Princess Mentality
A princess is humble. She doesn’t try to overtly call attention to herself. Her poise and confidence may draw attention, but she doesn’t go out of her way to get people to notice her.
A princess knows her self worth. She sets boundaries and doesn’t let others walk all over her.
After a princess has taken care of her personal needs, she helps those around her.
A princess is a leader. She carries herself with authority.
A princess has an opinion and can voice it on a subject with both strength and tact, not with judgment and force. I am working on the judgement issue.
So to all the other princesses out there, have a wonderful week!
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com
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7 days ago
TIP 2403 – Green Is For Life
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Green is the symbol for life. Appropriately, the green ribbon is the symbol of how we can save lives.
Over 4000 Canadians are awaiting a transplant and unfortunately more than 200 Canadians died last year waiting transplant.
I believe that many of us want to donate, but life gets in the way and we forget to sign our donor’s card and have the discussion with our loved ones. If you are okay with donating, take the opportunity during this awareness week to sign your card and discuss it with your family. Someone may be counting on you.
Here are some things I didn’t know…
Living donors can provide a kidney or part of their liver as well as bone marrow.
Between 80-95 per cent of patients are doing well one year after their transplant.
Spain has highest donation rate.
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Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating National Organ and Tissue Donors Awareness Week:
Having “organ donor” noted on your driver’s license or carrying a donor card or provincial health card is not all you have to do to become a donor.
Organ and tissue donation are always discussed with family members prior to the donation. For that reason, it is very important that you discuss your wishes with your family.
Don’t let the busyness of life get in the way of saving a life.
Looking for more tips to build your resiliency? Look for my book on Amazon called Stress Out. 52 Weeks To Letting More Life In
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Saturday Apr 19, 2025
TIP 2402 – Husband Appreciation
Saturday Apr 19, 2025
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Now, I must admit that I am not the best at letting my husband know how much I appreciate everything that he does. He is a wonderful man, a great friend, a good listening post, a terrific father, handyman excellence and very supportive of all of the things that I am involved with.
Like many people, I spend more time thinking about what could be different, what hasn’t been done and what I wish he would do, then letting him know what I am thankful for.
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Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Husband Appreciation Day:
Take a moment and think about how life would be terribly different without this person in your life
Let them know a couple of the little things that they do that make you smile
Give a hug for no reason
Use funny Post-It Notes and stick them in their car, their briefcase or lunch bag
Send a cheerful email to them at work (not one that reminds them to pick up a few groceries on their way home)
Being able to appreciate others benefits not only your relationship but also your own mood and perspective on life. Look for the things that are going right and they will start to over-shadow those things that may not be just as we would like them to be.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com
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Friday Apr 18, 2025
TIP 2401 – Dream More
Friday Apr 18, 2025
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Have you had a bizarre dream or a scary dream and wondered what it meant if anything? Do you have a recurring dream? Are you late for a test in high school? Can you fly? Do you visit the same places night after night in your dreams?
Do you remember your dreams?
I have very vivid dreams and for the most part, I remember them for a little while, especially the bizarre ones. Once I woke up and was super angry at my husband because in my dream on a very lovely and romantic walk, he mistakenly thought that a little black and white critter was a kitten. I awoke suddenly in my dream as we were sprayed by a skunk.
I wonder what my subconscious was trying to tell me? Was it a warning? Or was I releasing pent up emotional energy?
Dreams can give us guidance and inspiration and help us solve problems. At the end of April, you can phone the National Dream Hotline and from Friday through to Sunday night, the School of Metaphysics will be on hand to offer free dream interpretations.
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Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating National Dream Hotline:
Sleep is one of the most effective things that we can do for our health. A good quality and quantity of sleep are needed to ensure that our minds and bodies repair and heal themselves. However, research clearly shows that people who overestimate their ability to get by on less sleep are sadly mistaken. As a lack of good quality sleep will have a negative impact over time. Tip #1 Know that sleep is essential.
Some research suggests that time spent in dream sleep is what specifically heals. Dreaming allows us to re-process upsetting memories and experiences in a safer, calmer environment.
Everybody dreams but not everybody remembers their dreams. Dreams are our picture language. Our dreams are not literal and so it may take a bit of work to interpret the pictures that we are seeing. If you do remember your dreams and have an interest in the meaning behind your dreams, you can call and learn how your conscious and subconscious relate to each other.
Looking for more tips to build your resiliency? Check out my Live Smart blog at worksmartlivesmart.com
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Thursday Apr 17, 2025
TIP 2400 – Mustang Sally
Thursday Apr 17, 2025
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It debuted at the World Fair on April 17, 1964. It was featured on the covers of Newsweek and Time magazines and appeared on the silver screen in the James Bond movie “Goldfinger” that same year.
Here’s another hint: It was built for the working man and it sold almost 400,000 in the first year.
What am I referring to: The Ford Mustang and today is the day that all Mustang owners and enthusiasts celebrate.
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Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Ford Mustang Day:
My husband and I own a 1965 Mustang. Sally is numbers matching, which means that she is in her original condition. She is part of our resiliency tool belt, as during the summer months, we take Sally out for drives in the country. Mostly to find a good ice cream cone or to enter her in a car show. Driving around is about savouring the summer.
Whether you're into gardening, fixing up vintage cars, or even soduko puzzles, research has found that hobbies are just as important to good health as exercise is, thanks to their ability to relieve stress.
This study found that people who engaged in leisure activities were 34% less stressed, reported feeling happier, and their heart rate was lower.
It didn't seem to matter what the participants did just so long as it was something they deeply enjoyed.
So on this day of celebrating the iconic Mustang, find something that you enjoy and be immersed in it. Your health will thank you for it.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com
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Wednesday Apr 16, 2025
TIP 2399 – Would You Wear Your PJs To Work
Wednesday Apr 16, 2025
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No need to get dressed up for work today. You can ditch the shoes too. Today is wear your pjs to work day, along with a pair of fuzzy bunny slippers.
For me, I regularly wear my pjs to work. 15 steps down from my bedroom and 15 steps into my office and I am at work. And since I am the boss, there is not a dress code. Unless, I am going out to speak somewhere, then, I shower up, beautify and dress in my best.
Whether or not you want to wear your pjs to work, today is a day to ditch the stress. Focus on self-care and let loose.
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Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Wear Your PJs To Work Day:
Have fun with this day. Many celebrities, radio stations and tv shows are celebrating, so why not you? Have your own pajama party – even if it is on-line. You may want to ensure a few rules, such as ensuring appropriate body coverage. Give prizes for the loudest pajamas or the craziest designs.
If the day has passed and you didn’t wear your pjs to work in, put them on as soon as you are done. For me, there is nothing as relaxing as a cozy, comfy pair of pjs. My kids know exactly what to get me for my birthday and I love all of them. In pajamas you can be yourself.
Pjs are also great on Saturdays and Sundays that are lounge all-day days. How about Pjs, a movie and hot chocolate or ice cream or other wonderful treats.
If you like today’s wellness tips, let me know. You can leave me a review on amazon or through your #alexa app.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com
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Tuesday Apr 15, 2025
TIP 2398 – Life Sucks and Then It Doesn’t
Tuesday Apr 15, 2025
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Life as we know it has changed. And for many who are isolated from their school mates, friends, family and colleagues, or who have lost their job, or who have gotten sick, life may be pretty crappy right now.
Life isn’t fair. Life sucks. Then it gets better. Then it can suck again.
All we are required to do, is to take one day, or one moment at a time. To keep moving ourselves forward.
Like is a journey of a million steps and hopefully we don’t stop too often and want to turn back.
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Here are today’s Tips For Building Your Resiliency and Celebrating Life Sucks Day:
It is OK to be sad, or mad, to cry, to be frustrated, to feel angry, jealous, anxious and scared.
It is okay to feel.
Set you intentions on those things that you can control and use that sense of control to show you that 100% of your life, right now, does not suck. Some of it may, but not 100%
Focus in on the things that you can be grateful for. However small that may be.
Finally, hold on to HOPE.
HOPE for me stands for Hold On. Possibility Exists.
Strategic Hope forces me to take action and that action is based on problem solving what I can control. And when I have a sense of control, I don’t feel so sucky.
The circle of life.
Hold on…it’s going to be okay.
If you like today’s wellness tips, let me know. You can leave me a review on amazon or through your #alexa app.
For more information on coping with mental health issues, sign up for one of my on-line courses at worksmartlivesmart.com under the resources and courses tab.
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Monday Apr 14, 2025
TIP 2397 – I’ll Do It
Monday Apr 14, 2025
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The most rewarding experiences that I have had have come from volunteering. Especially my time developing youth groups, being on boards for various charities and associations, and fundraising for my children’s sport programs. In fact, I would guestimate that about ¼ of my time is given to volunteering.
Over a quarter of Canadians aged 15 and over volunteered for a charitable or non-profit organization last year. And though we think of women volunteering more than men, men contributed more volunteer hours on average than women.
Volunteering is a way of connecting yourself to the larger society and connection is critical when it comes to dealing with the sources of stress that we face.
By far the most commonly cited barriers were those related to time.
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So Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating National Volunteer Week:
If you are a volunteer, talk about your experiences to others. Positive role models are needed, especially by our younger generations.
If you are looking for volunteers for your organization, be clear about the expectations, make commitments short and ASK. Many have difficulty holding up their hand to volunteer, but would say yes if asked in person.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com
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Sunday Apr 13, 2025
TIP 2396 – Get to Know Your Customer
Sunday Apr 13, 2025
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I have been asked about how to ensure that irate customers don’t rattle your staff’
The first step is to understand that negative attitudes and behaviours are usually expressed when our customers are stressed out or they just don’t have the energy to use better communication skills, judgment and manners.
Being stressed out is chronic in today’s society. Our customers often have too much to do, too many decisions to make, and are usually running behind schedule.
The difficulty behind the negative attitudes and behaviours of our customers is that they are highly “toxic” to our team.
As the leader, there are several steps that you can take to ensure that your staff can effectively handle the best and the worst in these customers.
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Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Get to Know Your Customer Day
- Discuss the types of customers that your team may encounter ahead of time.
What are some of the common complaints that your staff may face’ Share past experiences and horror stories with each other and prepare answers and solutions ahead of time? Preparation allows your staff to feel more confident in dealing with these difficult customers and not absorb the negativity.
- Teach your staff how to keep their composure, be assertive and know exactly what it is they want to communicate. Help them to get comfortable with those customers who need to vent and express themselves – however, let them know that they do not need to tolerate abuse.
As the leader, you play a very important role in preventing customer negativity from rattling your team.
Looking for resources to build your resilience? Check out my Live Smart blog at worksmartlivesmart.com
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Saturday Apr 12, 2025
TIP 2395 – Walk On Your Wild Side
Saturday Apr 12, 2025
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Do you walk on the wild side?
Or have you given in to the everyday routines of life?
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Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Walk On Your Wild Side Day:
Take the Walk On Your Wild Side Challenge.
Use this day to plan something out of the ordinary, unusual or even extraordinary.
Better yet, don’t plan something, just do it.
It doesn’t have to be something dangerous, just a bit quirky or different from the everyday.
What about spraying your hair with your favourite colour?
Or dressing up like a famous rock star or movie character?
Or maybe it is to get up on stage and belt out your favourite tune at a karaoke bar? How about the 1972 song, Walk On The Wild Side, by Lou Reed?
Let yourself be free and unencumbered.
Share the moment with #wildside and encourage others to add more joy to their life too!
PS My most recent wild side display was going to a big-hair 80’s band concert…dressed in authentic garb of the day.
Looking for more tips to build your resiliency? Look for my book on Amazon called Stress Out. 52 Weeks To Letting More Life In
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Friday Apr 11, 2025
TIP 2394 – Mental Health Boosting Power Of Pets
Friday Apr 11, 2025
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Research shows that pets can provide excellent social support, stress relief and numerous other mental health benefits.
Pets can be there for you in ways that people can’t. They can offer love and companionship, and can be the best antidote to loneliness.
Pets can increase your sense of purpose in life. Researchers found that elderly people who owned pets had better everyday well-being than those who didn’t own pets. When you have meaning and purpose, you are less likely to feel depressed, isolated, and lonely.
Pets connect to our nurturing side. Pets learn to sense emotions from humans. If the human is withdrawn the pet senses that something is wrong or different and attempts to change the human’s behaviour.
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Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating National Pet Day:
If you have a pet, take the time to be focused while in their presence
Today is the day to create public awareness about the plight of many different kinds of animals awaiting a forever home
One simple thing that we can do is to assist an ill, elderly or financially struggling neighbour friend by purchasing pet food, hay or needed items for their pets.
No one should be separated from their pet family member when they need them the most.
Looking for more ways to build your resiliency? Take my free on-line vulnerability test at worksmartlivesmart.com under the resources and courses tab.
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Thursday Apr 10, 2025
TIP 2393 – Celebrating Siblings
Thursday Apr 10, 2025
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It is usually the longest relationship in our life. If you have brothers or sisters, then you will know that rivalry and love can exist in the same relationship. Siblings are a part of who we are, and that shared history is what makes this relationship so valuable.
Did you know that research has shown that healthy sibling relationships can significantly benefit us later in life’ The quality of sibling relationships is one of the most important predictors of mental health in old age, according to The American Journal of Psychiatry. Research shows that people who are emotionally close to their siblings have higher life satisfaction and lower rates of depression later in life.
An agreeable relationship between siblings isn’t always a given. It takes work.
Today is the day to let your siblings know how much you appreciate them. Sibling Day is a way of honouring that special bond that can exist between siblings.
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Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating National Siblings Day:
- Post a photo with your siblings using the hashtag #NationalSiblingsDay
- Reach out and share a special memory of the two of you growing up together
- Plan for connection time and share goals. Aging changes us into vastly different people, and it’s entirely possible your sibling might not even know who you truly have become as an adult. Open up, share, and learn about each other
- Finally, just as you might regularly tell your spouse or partner you love them, siblings need those reassurances too.
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Wednesday Apr 09, 2025
TIP 2392 - How Not To Let Social Phobias Derail You
Wednesday Apr 09, 2025
Wednesday Apr 09, 2025
I have a Social Phobia. It produces extreme reactions in me.
I am a stress and wellness speaker. I can stand up in front of hundreds of people. However, put me into a situation where I am being graded, evaluated, or tested and I fold. I think that I have FNE or fear of negative evaluation.
This became obvious when I went to a karate grading. It wasn’t even really being graded. It was being pre-graded for my black belt. When the big day came, it overwhelmed me.
When I think back, I know that this happened at every skating competition and every piano recital.
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So Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Stress Awareness Month:
Many employees hate the performance appraisal to the point where they make them physically ill. Often in these situations, they miss any positive comments and hear only the areas that were cited as needing to improve.
As employers, flexibility is needed. Not all performance appraisals need to be delivered in person. Allow people to choose how they want to proceed.
If you have a social phobia, know that to overcome a fear takes work. You need to slowly learn how to challenge some of the unhelpful thoughts that the fear generates.
Expose yourself to your social phobia in a safe way. Plan and practice your stress strategies ahead of time so that they are like second nature during your exposure.
Ask for help. Let others support you during those stressful times.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com
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Tuesday Apr 08, 2025
TIP 2391 – Sleep Tight and Don’t Let The Bad Energy Bite
Tuesday Apr 08, 2025
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Getting a full night’s sleep is up there on the list of things that can make you an energetic, happier person. That quality and quantity can be impacted by poor feng shui in your bedroom. By being aware of some of the principles of feng shui, your bedroom can promote healing, love, and energy.
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So Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Feng Shui Awareness Day:
Meeting the feng shui bed guidelines starts with a solid headboard, good mattress, good frame height, and no storage underneath.
Choose Your Bedroom to be at the back-end of your home. The back-end of our homes are usually much quieter and your sleep is less likely to be disrupted.
Position your head so that you can see the door and have your headboard against the wall. This gives you a subtle sense of security that’ll help you fall asleep easier. The feng shui commanding position is the area furthest diagonally from the door, but not in line with it.
Only have things that bring you joy and help your energy
Work and sleep don’t mix, so avoid work-related furniture in the bedroom.
Get rid of “light pollution” that causes sleepless nights. Use black out curtains if necessary.
Remove all electronics from easy-access to your bed, and you can find your sleep quality improve.
Keep your bedroom free of clutter including underneath your bed. A clean and organized bedroom is more visually relaxing and less likely to invoke frustration and agitation that lower your sleep quality.
Feng shui is often misconstrued as a complicated, confusing process, however, just follow a few basic principles. Keep clutter at a minimum, have plenty of natural light and fill your home with rounded or curved furniture to allow energy to flow more freely throughout a space.
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Monday Apr 07, 2025
TIP 2390 - Make A Friend Not Foe
Monday Apr 07, 2025
Monday Apr 07, 2025
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Have You Ever Had A Dog Bite You?
I was only two. In my mind, I vaguely remember being in our living room with my mom while she was crying and talking on the phone to the hospital. I remember being in the emergency room. And before all of this, I have a fleeting memory of being out at the barn and our dog. Somehow, our dog thought that I was going to steal his food, though I had been out there numerous times. On this particular occasion, he snapped at me and bit me, just missing my eye.
Even the calmest, most loving dog can get snappy when sat on, stepped on or when they feel fear for themselves or their family.
My experience could have left me scarred in many more ways than just the one that I carry on my face. Today, I am a dog lover. I don’t fear them, but I do have a very healthy respect for them.
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Here are today’s Tips For Protecting Yourself And Celebrating Dog Bite Prevention Week:
The Canadian Safety Council estimates that in 70% of dog bite cases the victim knew the dog. Parents need to teach their children how to interact safely with Fido.
NEVER disturb a dog who is sleeping, eating, or caring for puppies.
NEVER pet a dog, even your own, without letting him see and sniff you first.
Dogs that haven’t been properly socialized, receive little attention or handling, or are left tied up for long periods of time frequently turn into biters. Be a responsible pet owner.
Properly train and socialize your dog, and teach it submissive behaviors like giving up food without growling.
Cynophobia is an irrational fear of dogs. If you find that your fear of dogs is excessive and you can’t easily avoid them, seek out the help of a professional counselor, psychologist or psychiatrist.
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