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Hope, Health, and Happiness. Would you like to live your life with less stress and more happiness? Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, more resilient you. Stress is a powerful force in life. It can bring about illness, destroy relationships and cause chaos. There is not a one-size-fits-all coping strategy for dealing with stress. Our goal is to put a plan together that helps us to deal with the sources of stress, take care of ourselves during those stressful times, and allows us to reach out to those around us for support. The Work Smart Live Smart flash briefing focuses on helping you to Harness Your Energy, Build Your Resiliency and Protect Your Mental Health!
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Saturday Apr 15, 2023
TIP 1667 – Life Sucks and Then It Doesn’t
Saturday Apr 15, 2023
Saturday Apr 15, 2023
Life as we know it has changed. And for many who are isolated from their school mates, friends, family and colleagues, or who have lost their job, or who have gotten sick, life may be pretty crappy right now.
Life isn’t fair. Life sucks. Then it gets better. Then it can suck again.
All we are required to do, is to take one day, or one moment at a time. To keep moving ourselves forward.
Like is a journey of a million steps and hopefully we don’t stop too often and want to turn back.
Take One Action Today To Build Your #Resiliency!
Here are today’s Tips For Building Your Resiliency and Celebrating Life Sucks Day:
It is OK to be sad, or mad, to cry, to be frustrated, to feel angry, jealous, anxious and scared.
It is okay to feel.
Set you intentions on those things that you can control and use that sense of control to show you that 100% of your life, right now, does not suck. Some of it may, but not 100%
Focus in on the things that you can be grateful for. However small that may be.
Finally, hold on to HOPE.
HOPE for me stands for Hold On. Possibility Exists.
Strategic Hope forces me to take action and that action is based on problem solving what I can control. And when I have a sense of control, I don’t feel so sucky.
The circle of life.
Hold on…it’s going to be okay.
If you like today’s wellness tips, let me know. You can leave me a review on amazon or through your #alexa app.
For more information on coping with mental health issues, sign up for one of my on-line courses at worksmartlivesmart.com under the resources and courses tab.
#mentalhealth #hr

Friday Apr 14, 2023
TIP 1666 – Find The Positive In All Of The Negative
Friday Apr 14, 2023
Friday Apr 14, 2023
The pandemic continues. Social isolation for several more weeks. Jobs lost.
We get bombarded every day with negative news stories. Often to the point where we see the world as a very difficult place to live. For some, it may get to the point of wondering why any sane person would bring a child into this world.
All of this negativity has an impact. It impacts our outlook, our relationships and our health. Negativity is contagious and a major health hazard.
We need to balance these negative news stories with positive and inspirational stories. Positive stories and experiences have a positive impact on our health. A recent review of more than 160 studies on the connection between a positive state of mind and overall health and longevity has found that happier people enjoy better health and longer lives.
Take One Action Today To Build Your #Resiliency!
Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating National Inspirational News Week:
We need to be informed and I am not suggesting that we keep our ‘head in the sand’ when it comes to difficult issues. But make sure that you don’t get sucked into the negativity that is around you.
Be proactive and look for the positive ‘stories’. Share these stories.
And if you have children, watch what you share with them. We can easily skew their perception of the world if we only share the negative. Inspire them with stories of how others have taken on a difficult situation and found ways to overcome.
Remember: Negative breeds negative and positive can inspire positive.
If you like today’s wellness tips, let me know. You can leave me a review on amazon or through your #alexa app.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com
#mentalhealth #hr

Thursday Apr 13, 2023
TIP 1665 - Make A Friend Not Foe
Thursday Apr 13, 2023
Thursday Apr 13, 2023
Have You Ever Had A Dog Bite You?
I was only two. In my mind, I vaguely remember being in our living room with my mom while she was crying and talking on the phone to the hospital. I remember being in the emergency room. And before all of this, I have a fleeting memory of being out at the barn and our dog. Somehow, our dog thought that I was going to steal his food, though I had been out there numerous times. On this particular occasion, he snapped at me and bit me, just missing my eye.
Even the calmest, most loving dog can get snappy when sat on, stepped on or when they feel fear for themselves or their family.
My experience could have left me scarred in many more ways than just the one that I carry on my face. Today, I am a dog lover. I don’t fear them, but I do have a very healthy respect for them.
Take One Action Today To Build Your #Resiliency!
Here are today’s Tips For Protecting Yourself And Celebrating Dog Bite Prevention Week:
The Canadian Safety Council estimates that in 70% of dog bite cases the victim knew the dog. Parents need to teach their children how to interact safely with Fido.
NEVER disturb a dog who is sleeping, eating, or caring for puppies.
NEVER pet a dog, even your own, without letting him see and sniff you first.
Dogs that haven’t been properly socialized, receive little attention or handling, or are left tied up for long periods of time frequently turn into biters. Be a responsible pet owner.
Properly train and socialize your dog, and teach it submissive behaviors like giving up food without growling.
Cynophobia is an irrational fear of dogs. If you find that your fear of dogs is excessive and you can’t easily avoid them, seek out the help of a professional counselor, psychologist or psychiatrist.
For more information on coping with mental health issues, sign up for one of my on-line courses at worksmartlivesmart.com under the resources and courses tab.
#mentalhealth #hr

Wednesday Apr 12, 2023
TIP 1664 – Walk On Your Wild Side
Wednesday Apr 12, 2023
Wednesday Apr 12, 2023
Do you walk on the wild side?
Or have you given in to the every-day routines of life?
Take One Action Today To Build Your #Resiliency!
Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Walk On Your Wild Side Day:
Take the Walk On Your Wild Side Challenge.
Use this day to plan something out of the ordinary, unusual or even extraordinary.
Better yet, don’t plan something, just do it.
It doesn’t have to be something dangerous, just a bit quirky or different from the everyday.
What about spraying your hair your favourite colour?
Or dressing up like a famous rock star or movie character?
Or maybe it is to get up on stage and belt out your favourite tune at a karaoke bar? How about the 1972 song, Walk On The Wild Side, by Lou Reed?
Let yourself be free and unencumbered.
Share the moment with #wildside and encourage others to add more joy to their life too!
PS My most recent wild side display was going to a big-hair 80’s band concert…dressed in authentic garb of the day.
Looking for more tips to build your resiliency? Look for my book on Amazon called Stress Out. 52 Weeks To Letting More Life In
#mentalhealth #hr

Tuesday Apr 11, 2023
TIP 1663 – Mental Health Boosting Power Of Pets
Tuesday Apr 11, 2023
Tuesday Apr 11, 2023
Research shows that pets can provide excellent social support, stress relief and numerous other mental health benefits.
Pets can be there for you in ways that people can’t. They can offer love and companionship, and can be the best antidote to loneliness.
Pets can increase your sense of purpose in life. Researchers found that elderly people who owned pets had better everyday well being than those that didn’t own pets. When you have meaning and purpose, you are less likely to feel depressed, isolated, and lonely.
Pets connect to our nurturing side. Pets learn to sense emotions from humans. If the human is withdrawn the pet senses that something is wrong or different and attempts to change the human’s behavior.
Take One Action Today To Build Your #Resiliency!
Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating National Pet Day:
If you have a pet, take the time to be focused while in their presence
Today is the day to create public awareness about the plight of many different kinds of animals awaiting a forever home
One simple thing that we can do is to assist an ill, elderly or a financially struggling neighbor or friend by purchasing pet food, hay or needed items for their pets.
No one should be separated from their pet family member when they need them the most.
Looking for more ways to build your resiliency? Take my free on-line vulnerability test at worksmartlivesmart.com under the resources and courses tab.
#mentalhealth #hr

Monday Apr 10, 2023
TIP 1662 – Celebrating Siblings
Monday Apr 10, 2023
Monday Apr 10, 2023
It is usually the longest relationship in our life. If you have brothers or sisters, then you will know that rivalry and love can exist in the same relationship. Siblings are a part of who we are, and that shared history is what makes this relationship so valuable.
Did you know that research has shown that healthy sibling relationships can significantly benefit us later in life’ The quality of sibling relationships is one of the most important predictors of mental health in old age, according to The American Journal of Psychiatry. Research shows that people who are emotionally close to their siblings have higher life satisfaction and lower rates of depression later in life.
An agreeable relationship between siblings isn’t always a given. It takes work.
Today is the day to let your siblings know how much you appreciate them. Sibling Day is a way of honouring that special bond that can exist between siblings.
Take One Action Today To Build Your #Resiliency!
Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating National Siblings Day:
- Post a photo with your siblings using the hashtag #NationalSiblingsDay
- Reach out and share a special memory of the two of you growing up together
- Plan for connection time and share goals. Aging changes us into vastly different people, and it’s entirely possible your sibling might not even know who you truly have become as an adult. Open up, share, and learn about each other
- Finally, just as you might regularly tell your spouse or partner you love them, siblings need those reassurances too.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com
#mentalhealth #hr

Sunday Apr 09, 2023
TIP 1661 – Controlling Conflict
Sunday Apr 09, 2023
Sunday Apr 09, 2023
April celebrates Conflict Awareness Month.
Celebrates sounds like a funny word to use when we are talking about conflict, but there are benefits to conflict including:
Becoming aware of issues within your team
Encouraging change in the way things are done
Stimulating creativity and bonding as you work to solve the conflict
And Promoting decision-making.
Conflict becomes difficult to manage when personalities hinder the process.
Take One Action Today To Build Your #Resiliency!
Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Conflict Awareness Month:
Understanding why some team members become more difficult or negative, and when they are more likely to act that way, can prevent that build up of tension from happening, that may prevent the team from productively solving the conflict.
So why are people difficult?
For some, negative attitudes and behaviours are expressed when they are stressed out and just don’t have the energy to use better communication skills, judgment and manners.
Our goal is to stop rewarding these irritating behaviours. To do this, we must understand what employees expect to gain from being so difficult. Some want to feel more in control. Some want to feel important and listened to, and some want to avoid outright conflict, but will act out their annoyance or disagreement through other negative behaviours. By finding the strategies to meet their needs and lower their stress, they may be better able to focus on solving the conflict.
The difficulty behind these attitudes and behaviours is that they are highly “toxic.” It is important that we practise good self-care so that our stress doesn’t add more negativity to the situation.
Want to find more strategies to coping with stress and dealing with conflict? Check out my website at worksmartlivesmart.com
#mentalhealth #hr

Saturday Apr 08, 2023
TIP 1660 – Sleep Tight and Don’t Let The Bad Energy Bite
Saturday Apr 08, 2023
Saturday Apr 08, 2023
Getting a full night’s sleep is up there on the list of things that can make you an energetic, happier person. That quality and quantity can be impacted by poor feng shui in your bedroom. By being aware of some of the principles of feng shui, your bedroom can promote healing, love, and energy.
Take One Action Today To Build Your #Resiliency!
So Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Feng Shui Awareness Day:
Meeting the feng shui bed guidelines starts with a solid headboard, good mattress, good frame height, and no storage underneath.
Choose Your Bedroom to be at the back-end of your home. The back-end of our homes are usually much quieter and your sleep is less likely to be disrupted.
Position your head so that you can see the door and have your headboard against the wall. This gives you a subtle sense of security that’ll help you fall asleep easier. The feng shui commanding position is the area furthest diagonally from the door, but not in line with it.
Only have things that bring you joy and help your energy
Work and sleep don’t mix, so avoid work-related furniture in the bedroom.
Get rid of “light pollution” that causes sleepless nights. Use black out curtains if necessary.
Remove all electronics from easy-access to your bed, and you can find your sleep quality improve.
Keep your bedroom free of clutter including underneath your bed. A clean and organized bedroom is more visually relaxing and less likely to invoke frustration and agitation that lower your sleep quality.
Feng shui is often misconstrued as a complicated, confusing process, however, just follow a few basic principles. Keep clutter at a minimum, have plenty of natural light and fill your home with rounded or curved furniture to allow energy to flow more freely throughout a space.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com
#mentalhealth #hr

Friday Apr 07, 2023
TIP 1659 - How Not To Let Social Phobias Derail You
Friday Apr 07, 2023
Friday Apr 07, 2023
I have a Social Phobia. It produces extreme reactions in me.
I am a stress and wellness speaker. I can stand up in front of hundreds of people. However, put me into a situation where I am being graded, evaluated, or tested and I fold. I think that I have FNE or fear of negative evaluation.
This became obvious when I went to a karate grading. It wasn’t even really being graded. It was being pre-graded for my black belt. When the big day came, it overwhelmed me.
When I think back, I know that this happened at every skating competition and every piano recital.
Take One Action Today To Build Your #Resiliency!
So Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Stress Awareness Month:
Many employees hate the performance appraisal to the point where they make them physically ill. Often in these situations, they miss any positive comments and hear only the areas that were cited as needing to improve.
As employers, flexibility is needed. Not all performance appraisals need to be delivered in person. Allow people to choose how they want to proceed.
If you have a social phobia, know that to overcome a fear takes work. You need to slowly learn how to challenge some of the unhelpful thoughts that the fear generates.
Expose yourself to your social phobia in a safe way. Plan and practice your stress strategies ahead of time so that they are like second nature during your exposure.
Ask for help. Let others support you during those stressful times.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com
#mentalhealth #hr

Thursday Apr 06, 2023
TIP 1658 - National Women’s Nutrition Week
Thursday Apr 06, 2023
Thursday Apr 06, 2023
It’s 3 o’clock in the afternoon, you are irritated, your head is fuzzy and your eyes are having trouble focusing. You would love to find a corner and go to sleep, but there is no time. How about a coffee or a chocolate bar?
Most of us instinctively reach for sweets or caffeine to give relief from the morning sluggishness or afternoon slump. We use sweets as a way of helping ourselves through stressful times. Those strategies might help, temporarily, but there is a downside to these methods. Poor eating strategies affect our brain chemistry and cause fatigue, apathy, apprehension, edginess and the blues.
Take One Action Today To Build Your #Resiliency!
So Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating National Women’s Nutrition Month:
Avoid The Sugar Blues.
Eat breakfast, lunch and dinner. Smaller balance meals are preferable to large meals.
Use exercise or stretching to increase energy and lift the ‘fog’.
Include fish in your weekly diet as the essential fatty acids they contain increase energy and improve mood.
Don’t confuse thirst with hunger. Drinking a cool glass of water can boost energy in the middle of the afternoon slump.
Have healthy snacks readily available. Plan ahead and keep them in desk drawers, lockers or even in the glove box of your car
We have all heard the saying ‘We are what we eat’, but most of us connect this with the body’s physical reactions. Our brain is just as dependent on the food that we consume.
Healthy food choices help us avoid the erratic blood sugar levels and associated mood swings. Plan your snacks ahead of time and avoid the sugar blues.
Looking for more tips to build your resiliency? Look for my book on Amazon called Stress Out. 52 Weeks To Letting More Life In
#mentalhealth #hr

Wednesday Apr 05, 2023
TIP 1657 – Express Yourself Through Poetry
Wednesday Apr 05, 2023
Wednesday Apr 05, 2023
Today is the day to share your favourite poem with your friends and co-workers. You may share the actual piece of paper you wrote it on, or you can Tweet it or FB it. Poetry can be shared at any time.
Poetry can be a mantra for living. It can express your emotions. Sometimes it can remind us of those we have loved or lost. Poetry can give a spiritual connection. It can provide you with a new perspective, and it can transport you.
One of my favourites for living my life is by Dylan Thomas. Life is to be lived, not watched.
Do not go gentle into that good night, Old age should burn and rave at close of day;
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.
Sometimes we find lessons in poems that are bang on.
Take One Action Today To Build Your #Resiliency!
So Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating National Poetry Month:
Go through your old books and re-visit some of the poems that use to connect to your heart
Search through the Internet to find some old classics or to read what a younger generation is writing about
Write your own poem to express your gratitude or your emotions. It can help you to go deeper and sort out all that you are experiencing
Share your poems with others
Don’t forget that you can find more tips for coping with mental health issues, by checking out my Live Smart blog at worksmartlivesmart.com
#mentalhealth #hr

Tuesday Apr 04, 2023
TIP 1656 – Remembering Date Night
Tuesday Apr 04, 2023
Tuesday Apr 04, 2023
I remember date night…That was before hockey and weekends at the rink. That was before school projects and helping out with math homework. And that was before going to bed before 9:00 was a matter of survival. With today’s chaotic pace, it is easy to take your partner for granted.
When we first fall in love, everything is excitingly-new. But, as the novelty factor starts to wane, we settle into more of a routine. That’s when excitement can be replaced by boredom.
But it doesn’t have to be that way. Research shows that couples can regain that excitement in their relationship by trying something new together. Experiencing new things triggers the release of two brain chemicals, dopamine and norepinephrine — the same ones released when you’re newly in love.
Take One Action Today To Build Your #Resiliency!
So Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating National Couple Appreciation Month:
Start going on dates again.
Plan a road trip to nowhere.
Go for a walk in the park and hold hands the entire time.
Cook a special dinner together just for the two of you.
Leave a quick note on the mirror, their gym bag, or their briefcase/purse to make them smile.
Take a minute to think about how much more enjoyable they make your life, and then tell them.
These are my suggestions, but I am sure that there are things that you did before that you would like to do again or new things that you would like to try with your partner. So go ahead – what’s stopping you? (nothing should be stopping you!) Nothing can be more important then ensuring that your relationship stays rock solid.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com
#mentalhealth #hr

Monday Apr 03, 2023
TIP 1655 – Early Detection Is Key
Monday Apr 03, 2023
Monday Apr 03, 2023
I had no idea. There will be nearly 9,000 new cases of Testicular Cancer diagnosed during this year and more than 300 young men will die from the disease because they didn’t catch it in time. That is more deaths than women in this age group who will die of breast cancer.)
Testicular Cancer is the most common cancer in men ages 15-40, that time when we don’t want to admit the possibility of illness. However, if detected early, it is among the easiest to cure.
Take One Action Today To Build Your #Resiliency!
So Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Testicular Cancer Awareness Week:
You are never too young or too old to do a self-exam. Teach young boys just like we do teen girls to do a self-exam. It should not be embarrassing, and it does save lives.
Know the risk factors:
Age: Most testicular cancers occur between the ages of 15 and 40.
The main risk factor for testicular cancer are undescended testicle(s).
A family history of testicular cancer increases the risk.
Race and ethnicity: The risk of testicular cancer among white American men is about five times that of African-American men and more than double that of Asian-American men.
Talk about it. Private parts are private, but knowing how to detect an illness early is just as essential as the ‘birds and the bees’.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com
#mentalhealth #hr

Sunday Apr 02, 2023
TIP 1654 – Motivation and Wellness
Sunday Apr 02, 2023
Sunday Apr 02, 2023
As wellness leaders and wellness cheerleaders know, it is often not a lack of information that our team’s face. It is about finding a stronger motivation to fight the no’s and the excuses.
Look for example at your smoking cessation programs. I would venture to say that almost everyone who smokes know that it is harming them in one way or the other. It is not until someone has a clear mental picture as to what the benefits are or how they see their life without smoking, that they can even hope to be successful.
Take One Action Today To Build Your #Resiliency!
So Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Physical Wellness Month:
Help people to have a picture in their head of what life will look like when they have achieved their wellness goal.
So, my picture, is to be able to still run a successful business and to have the creativity and motivation to keep trying new things. It is to be teaching karate to young boys and girls when I am older. I want to be that cool grandma that goes on the roller coaster rides and can walk along the beach. I want to be in my gardens, and I want to stay living in my two-story house. I want to be sure-footed and not afraid to go out and about. I want my back to be straight and my eyes looking forward, not hunched and looking at the ground. So I try to walk at least a couple of times every week, sometimes, complaining the whole way. I go to karate class as often as I can. I throw the frisbee in the snow, because even though it’s only the dog getting exercise, I am taking in the benefits of the light that will positively impact my mood and energy.
There are so many wellness programs that you could host at your workplace. How are those programs going to help your team be who they picture themselves being?
Looking for resources to build your healthy workplace? Check out my top 10 tips under Resources and Courses at worksmartlivesmart.com
#mentalhealth #hr

Saturday Apr 01, 2023
TIP 1653 - Fun Deficiency Syndrome
Saturday Apr 01, 2023
Saturday Apr 01, 2023
Today we fight the perils of FDS: Fun Deficiency Syndrome on this National Fun Day
Today is also Wet Monday. A tradition that was grew out of splashing holy water to a university wide water fight. Now, that sounds like fun!
It is also National Deep Dish Pizza Day – how about squishing some dough and making your own pizzas. That could be fun and probably not too messy!
Cheap, But Fun Things To Do
A lack of money shouldn’t mean a lack of fun. There are lots of fun things to do that don’t require any money at all. Play dress up or make-believe with your kids. Go and ride your bike. Take a walk at the beach or along a nature trail and see what spring has to offer. Play catch or Frisbee with your dog.
Fun can take place at work as well. This is also Laugh At Work Week – so check out our posting on this celebration for things that you can do at work.
When we are having fun we forget ourselves. Fun includes happiness, amusement, exhilaration, laughter and joy. However, we lose our sense of fun as we age if we do not nourish it regularly.
Take One Action Today To Build Your #Resiliency!
Here are today’s Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating National Fun Day:
Do something fun today – anything – but don’t let the day pass without having some fun!
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com
#mentalhealth #hr

Friday Mar 31, 2023
TIP 1652 – Appreciation Increases Engagement
Friday Mar 31, 2023
Friday Mar 31, 2023
An effective leader shows their employees and their team that they appreciate all their hard work and loyalty. When an employee goes above and beyond on a project, a supportive leader shows their appreciation. When the team achieves a difficult objective, a great leader celebrates
their accomplishment.
Wondering what you can do for your staff to thank them for all their efforts?
Take One Action Today To Build Your #Resiliency
Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Employee Appreciation Month:
Celebrate with food. It may be a breakfast, a catered lunch, or a smoothie break during the afternoon slump. What about a team cooking challenge? Provide each team with various ingredients and see what they can put together and enjoy the fun.
Give the gift of time. Give your team a time off coupon that they can use at their choosing.
Shout it out. Give a shoutout to a member who has completed a task or gone above and beyond to meet a deadline.
Send it. A hand-written note, sent to the employee’s home, is an unexpected and genuine way of showing appreciation.
Bring in a massage therapist to do 15-minute chair massages. A little bit of pampering goes along way.
Your employees are your most precious asset, let them know that they are valued and appreciated!
Looking for resources to build your healthy workplace? Check out my top 10 tips under Resources and Courses at worksmartlivesmart.com
#mentalhealth #hr

Thursday Mar 30, 2023
TIP 1651 - Celebrating I Am In Control Day
Thursday Mar 30, 2023
Thursday Mar 30, 2023
“I am in Control Day” is a call to action. It is your chance to get things in order and under control.
We humans have a powerful need to control the world around us. In the same respect, not being in control, creates an enormous amount of stress. As we evolved, being in control of our environment increased our chance of survival. It gave us a sense of certainty, completion, understanding, and predictability.
When we can’t completely control something, then we can use trust, routines and rules to help us with a sense of control. We trust authority figures to keep us safe and make the right decisions. We can also trust in a ‘higher’ power. Routines and rules help to keep things more predictable.
Take One Action Today To Build Your #Resiliency!
Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating I Am In Control Day:
Take a deep breath and relax. The stress response can be fought by inducing the relaxation response.
Assess the situation. Gather the facts. Sometimes just having all the information about what you are facing can help you to feel more in control. Be sure that you are not over-exaggerating the situation.
Next, ask yourself what you can do to problem solve the situation? What choices can you make that will help you resolve this?
Focus on the things that you do have control of, even if they are the little things.
“Remember, we always have choice about the way we live our lives. We may not be able to control everything and often control is more of an illusion. But when we give up choosing, we truly are out of control.”
Looking for more ways to build your resiliency, take my free on-line vulnerability test at worksmartlivesmart.com under the resources and courses tab.
#mentalhealth #hr

Wednesday Mar 29, 2023
TIP 1650 - Celebrating Entrepreneurs
Wednesday Mar 29, 2023
Wednesday Mar 29, 2023
This day celebrates those entrepreneurs who had a desire to be their own boss and who went out and made it happen. They are store owners, manufacturers, producers and service providers. It is through determination and hard work that their success is possible.
The downside is that they probably sacrificed family time and personal care for this success.
In helping entrepreneurs in dealing with work-related stress issues, one of the key reasons I hear that many started their business, was to have control. Control over the creative process. Control over the service that they provided to others. And most especially – control over themselves – How they worked and when they worked.
Often this control over when they worked and how they worked was quickly given away in an effort to grow their business. They became their own worse boss as they strived for success.
Take One Action Today To Build Your #Resiliency!
Building Resiliency and Celebrating National Mom and Pop Business Owners Day
Some advice if you are the business owner – remember why you started your own business and make sure that you are honouring that reason in the way that you conduct your business.
Make sure that you are taking care of yourself so that you have the energy to continue to work hard in your business. Take several breaks throughout the day to restore your energy. Eat right. Have a life outside your business. Stay connected to your family and friends.
The goal is to run a successful business and stay healthy and connected at the same time.
To everyone else: Thank those mom and pop business owners in your community who work hard to keep their business going strong
Looking for more ways to build your resiliency? Take my free on-line vulnerability test at worksmartlivesmart.com under the resources and courses tab.
#mentalhealth #hr

Tuesday Mar 28, 2023
TIP 1649 - Be Content Whatever The Circumstances
Tuesday Mar 28, 2023
Tuesday Mar 28, 2023
"I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have more than enough. I have learnt the secret to being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether poor or rich. I have the ability to face all situations because of the strength God gives me." Philippians 4:11-13
This is the sign above my desk that I read everyday that I am in my office. I am not there yet, but it is what I strive for. Contentment. A belief that things will be okay and that I will be okay.
Spiritual Wellness is generally considered to be the search for meaning and purpose in human existence, leading one to strive for a state of harmony with oneself and others, while working to balance inner needs with the rest of the world.
The path to spiritual wellness may involve meditation, prayer, affirmations, or specific spiritual practices that support your connection to a higher power or belief system.
Spiritual wellness involves having compassion, the capacity for love and forgiveness, altruism, joy, and fulfillment.
Your religious faith, values, beliefs, principles, and morals define your spirituality.
Take One Action Today To Build Your #Resiliency!
Tips For Building Resiliency and Achieving Spiritual Wellness:
Evaluate your own spiritual wellness with this brief quiz.
- Do you make time for relaxation in your day?
- Is there time for meditation and/or prayer?
- Do your values guide your decisions and actions?
- Are you accepting of the views of others?
This month focus on the meaning and purpose of your life and try to bring more harmony and balance to it.
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Monday Mar 27, 2023
TIP 1648 – Cabin Fever And Going Stir Crazy
Monday Mar 27, 2023
Monday Mar 27, 2023
Cabin fever has taken on a brand-new meaning during this pandemic.
Cabin fever refers to the irritability or restlessness experienced when a person, or group, is stuck at an isolated location or in confined quarters for an extended period of time.
Along with irritability or boredom, feeling Stir Crazy may leave you sleepy or on the other extreme, unable to sleep. You may have a distrust of anyone you are with, or have an urge to go out somewhere, even when you know that it is not safe to do so.
Take One Action Today To Build Your #Resiliency!
Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Cabin Fever Month:
The cure is as simple as getting outside and interacting with nature.
The sounds of the forest, the scent of the trees, the sunlight playing through the branches, the fresh, clean air — these things give us a sense of comfort. They ease our stress and worry, help us to relax and to think more clearly. Being in nature can restore our mood, give us back our energy and vitality, refresh and rejuvenate us. Research has demonstrated that even brief interactions with nature can promote improved cognitive functioning, and overall well-being.
It is easy to let our perspective on life get distorted, especially during times of chaos and challenge. Sometimes we neglect doing the simple things that can help us to refocus, re-energize and restore our mental health.
An easy way to do that is to move from looking inwards at ourselves and our situation to moving outwards and noticing the awesome things that are occurring all around us.
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