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Hope, Health, and Happiness. Would you like to live your life with less stress and more happiness? Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, more resilient you.
Stress is a powerful force in life. It can bring about illness, destroy relationships and cause chaos. There is not a one-size-fits-all coping strategy for dealing with stress in your personal life or at work. Our goal is to help you address the sources of stress, take care of yourself during stressful times, and to find ways to reach out to those around you for support. The Work Smart Live Smart flash briefing focuses on helping you to Harness Your Energy, Build Your Resiliency and Protect Your Mental Health!
Hope, Health, and Happiness. Would you like to live your life with less stress and more happiness? Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, more resilient you.
Stress is a powerful force in life. It can bring about illness, destroy relationships and cause chaos. There is not a one-size-fits-all coping strategy for dealing with stress in your personal life or at work. Our goal is to help you address the sources of stress, take care of yourself during stressful times, and to find ways to reach out to those around you for support. The Work Smart Live Smart flash briefing focuses on helping you to Harness Your Energy, Build Your Resiliency and Protect Your Mental Health!
Episodes

Saturday Apr 27, 2019
EP 217 – Stress Decreases Your Chances Of Conceiving
Saturday Apr 27, 2019
Saturday Apr 27, 2019
In our early adult years we spent so much effort on prevention, who knew that #conception could be so difficult, or that Stress Decreases Your Chances Of Conceiving.
For more than a couple of years my husband and I tried to conceive a child. At that time we never heard that Stress Decreases Your Chances Of Conceiving. We endured months and months of taking temperatures, doctor visits, disappointments, crying, trying new medications, testing of all kinds and grieving. It was a horrible roller-coaster ride. We were not alone in our struggles. Infertility rates in Canada are increasing with roughly 1 in 6 couples experiencing fertility issues.
While we were going through this struggle, we told very few people, especially our families.
Stress grew as the months passed.
Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency Increasing Your Chances of Conceiving and Celebrating #InfertilityAwarenessWeek:
Find Ways To Relax. I know that you may hate hearing this, but it is one thing that you can do.
Be Nutrition Wise. Our nutrition impacts the way in which our bodies function, both efficiently and effectively.
Aim For Emotional Balance. Watch out for negative emotions such as anger, guilt, or resentment, which many women may feel at some point in their journeys to conceive.
Laugh More. Laughter can take the edge off of a stressful day.
Take Advantage of Support and Counselling.
Keep the Romance Alive While Trying to Conceive.
If you know someone who is experiencing fertility issues, let them know that you understand how difficult this is for them and that you are there to listen to their frustrations, their fears, and their disappointments.
For more information on coping with mental health issues, sign up for one of my on-line courses at worksmartlivesmart.com under the resources and courses tab

Friday Apr 26, 2019
EP 216 – Burning Out The Babysitter
Friday Apr 26, 2019
Friday Apr 26, 2019
I find it very sad when I see someone who was dedicated and enthusiastic about their job, leaves because of burnout.
This is often the case in the childcare profession.
Burnout is a state of fatigue, while feeling frustrated, overworked and unappreciated. It combines physical, emotional and mental symptoms.
Workplace stress and #burnout is very high in the childcare profession due to the stress of managing multiple children and their behaviours, the relationships with parents and peers, and often there is a lack of recognition and appreciation for what should be seen as such an important role in our society.
So Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating #ChildcareProfessionalsDay:
As a childcare professional be aware of the problem and recognize the danger signs of burnout, then take care of your health.
Learn long-term and short-term relaxation and stretching strategies.
Be realistic about goals and expectations. Set limits.
Develop strong communication skills and strategies for dealing with children, parents and peers.
Develop activities that are separate from work.
As a parent whose child is looked after by a childcare professional:
Remember that parenting isn`t easy at the best of times, neither is looking after someone else`s child. Not everything will be perfect or dealt with exactly as you would like it to be.
Let go of minor annoyances and deal appropriately and respectfully with those issues that must be addressed.
My children are many years out of their daycare setting, but they still have warm feelings for their childcare providers when they see them in person or when we look at pictures from the past. So to Sara, Kelly, Julie, and Darlene – many thanks for taking good care of my boys.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com

Thursday Apr 25, 2019
EP 215 – Shh!
Thursday Apr 25, 2019
Thursday Apr 25, 2019
It’s quiet. Well, almost. There is the ticking of the clock, the rattle of the furnace, the birds chirping outside of my window and my computer humming along.
For some this silence is uncomfortable or we feel guilty, so we turn on the TV, though we aren’t really watching. It is important in the chaos of everyday living that we take a few moments and shut out as many sounds of the world and just be. It is here that we can rest, that we can rejuvenate, that we can be creative, and we can reflect.
So Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating #NoiseAwareness Day:
Pay attention to the noise you make and respect your neighbour’s right to peace and quiet.
Turn down the volume two notches on your radios and personal stereo systems with headphones.
Turn down the volume one notch on your television and turn it off during dinner.
Do NOT honk your horn, except in the case of imminent danger.
Replace noisy activities with quiet ones such as taking a walk.
Wear adequate hearing protection if you must be in a noisy environment and if you are concerned, get a hearing screening test done.
Try to observe one minute of no noise everyday.
Looking for more tips to build your resiliency? Look for my book on Amazon called Stress Out. 52 Weeks To Letting More Life In

Wednesday Apr 24, 2019
EP 214 – I’m A Princess
Wednesday Apr 24, 2019
Wednesday Apr 24, 2019
I want to be a princess. Not the entitled kind, but the kind who works at being secure, confident, and powerful.
So Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating National #Princess Week with me:
One site listed 10 Qualities of a Healthy Princess Mentality
A princess is humble. She doesn’t try to overtly call attention to herself. Her poise and confidence may draw attention, but she doesn’t go out of her way to get people to notice her.
A princess knows her self worth. She sets boundaries and doesn’t let others walk all over her.
After a princess has taken care of her personal needs, she helps those around her.
A princess is a leader. She carries herself with authority.
A princess has an opinion and can voice it on a subject with both strength and tact, not with judgment and force. I am working on the judgement issue.
So to all the other princesses out there, have a wonderful week!
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com

Tuesday Apr 23, 2019
EP 213 – Green Is For Life
Tuesday Apr 23, 2019
Tuesday Apr 23, 2019
Green is the symbol for life. Appropriately, the green ribbon is the symbol of how we can save lives.
Over 4000 Canadians are awaiting a transplant and unfortunately more than 200 Canadians died last year waiting transplant.
I believe that many of us want to donate, but life gets in the way and we forget to sign our donor’s card and have the discussion with our loved ones. If you are okay with donating, take the opportunity during this awareness week to sign your card and discuss it with your family. Someone may be counting on you.
Here are some things I didn’t know…
Living #donors can provide a kidney or part of their liver as well as bone marrow.
Between 80-95 per cent of patients are doing well one year after their transplant.
Spain has highest donation rate.
So Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating National Organ and Tissue Donors Awareness Week:
Having “organ donor” noted on your driver’s license or carrying a donor card or provincial health card is not all you have to do to become a donor.
Organ and tissue donation are always discussed with family members prior to the donation. For that reason, it is very important that you discuss your wishes with your family.
Don’t let the busyness of life get in the way of saving a life.
Looking for more tips to build your resiliency? Look for my book on Amazon called Stress Out. 52 Weeks To Letting More Life In

Monday Apr 22, 2019
EP 212 – Mother Earth
Monday Apr 22, 2019
Monday Apr 22, 2019
I am very glad that the snow is gone and that my flowers are trying hard to poke their heads up to the sun. A few years ago we celebrated Earth Day while we were on vacation. My boys were looking forward to the release of the Disney production of Earth, while we were at Disney. It inspired them to do our annual clean up of the roadside where we live. They learned that each of us can do a little and we can all have an impact.
So Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating #EarthDay:
Be a Smart shopper. Buy what you need, not what you want. Consider renting and borrowing things that are seldom needed
Walk, cycle, car pool and use public transportation
Choose local foods that are in season and support local food producers
Wash full loads of clothes in cold water and hang to air dry
For summer air conditioning, set your thermostat to 24°C or 25°C
For winter heating, set your thermostat to 19°C or 20°C
Take short showers instead of baths
Don’t discard. Donate, reuse and recycle items before throwing them into the trash
Earth Day isn’t about a single action you can do to support a healthier environment. Instead, Earth Day is seen by many as a day to renew a personal commitment to support a healthier environment. Though my family and I have a long way to go, every little bit helps as we move to live more responsibly with the environment.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com

Sunday Apr 21, 2019
EP 211 – Husband Appreciation
Sunday Apr 21, 2019
Sunday Apr 21, 2019
Now, I must admit that I am not the best at letting my husband know how much I appreciate everything that he does. He is a wonderful man, a great friend, a good listening post, a terrific father, handyman excellente and very supportive of all of the things that I am involved with.
Like many people, I spend more time thinking about what could be different, what hasn’t been done and what I wish he would do, then letting him know what I am thankful for.
So Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Husband Appreciation Day:
Take a moment and think about how life would be terribly different without this person in your life
Let them know a couple of the little things that they do that make you smile
Give a hug for no reason
Use funny Post-It Notes and stick them in their car, their briefcase or lunch bag
Send a cheerful email to them at work (not one that reminds them to pick up a few groceries on their way home)
Being able to appreciate others benefits not only your relationship but also your own mood and perspective on life. Look for the things that are going right and they will start to over-shadow those things that may not be just as we would like them to be.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com

Saturday Apr 20, 2019
EP 210 – Motivation and Wellness
Saturday Apr 20, 2019
Saturday Apr 20, 2019
As wellness leaders and wellness cheerleaders know, it is often not a lack of information that our team’s face. It is about finding a stronger motivation to fight the no’s and the excuses.
Look for example at your smoking cessation programs. I would venture to say that almost everyone who smokes know that it is harming them in one way or the other. It is not until someone has a clear mental picture as to what the benefits are or how they see their life without smoking, that they can even hope to be successful.
So Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Physical Wellness Month:
Help people to have a picture in their head of what life will look like when they have achieved their wellness goal.
So, my picture, is to be able to still run a successful business and to have the creativity and motivation to keep trying new things. It is to be teaching karate to young boys and girls when I am older. I want to be that cool grandma that goes on the roller coaster rides and can walk along the beach. I want to be in my gardens and I want to stay living in my two-story house. I want to be sure-footed and not afraid to go out and about. I want my back to be straight and my eyes looking forward, not hunched and looking at the ground. So I try to walk at least a couple of times every week, sometimes, complaining the whole way. I go to karate class as often as I can. I throw the frisbee in the snow, because even though it’s only the dog getting exercise, I am taking in the benefits of the light that will positively impact my mood and energy.
There are so many wellness programs that you could host at your workplace. How are those programs going to help your team be who they picture themselves being?
Looking for resources to build your healthy workplace? Check out my top 10 tips under Resources and Courses at worksmartlivesmart.com

Friday Apr 19, 2019
EP 209 – Meditation To Mend The Mind
Friday Apr 19, 2019
Friday Apr 19, 2019
Our minds can not operate on ‘full throttle’ all day long. Focus #meditation helps to clear the mind of racing, cluttered thoughts by focusing our energies on a particular image or thought. Gradually distracting thoughts will decrease during meditation. This strategy helps to restore mental balance by providing a break in our hectic day. By allowing our mind to slow down it is better able to focus when we return to the task at hand.
So Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating National #StressAwarenessDay:
All that is needed is a quiet environment, a comfortable position, a mental image or positive thought in which to focus on, and an attitude that will permit relaxation to happen. Meditating or focusing on music or a relaxing video can give the mind a needed break from stressful events such as conflict, problem-solving, and high energy output.
Guided imagery is a visualization technique, that goes one step further than mediation, by actually engaging the senses within the body to deliver a variety of messages. It can be used to reduce blood pressure, lower cholesterol, reduce muscle tension, and increase energy. Your body responds to these positive images in the same way it would, if the image was ‘real’.
There is no way we can not get rid of all of our stress, nor do we want to. What we want to do is to reduce our negative reactions to stress so that we don’t become sick, worn down, and worn out. Start by adding one relaxation technique to your daily checklist of things to do.
Looking for more tips to build your resiliency? Look for my book on Amazon called Stress Out. 52 Weeks To Letting More Life In

Thursday Apr 18, 2019
EP 208 – Get to Know Your Customer
Thursday Apr 18, 2019
Thursday Apr 18, 2019
I have been asked about how to ensure that irate customers don’t rattle your staff.
The first step is to understand that negative attitudes and behaviours are usually expressed when our customers are stressed out or they just don’t have the energy to use better communication skills, judgment and manners.
Being stressed out is chronic in today’s society. Our customers often have too much to do, too many decisions to make, and are usually running behind schedule.
The difficulty behind the negative attitudes and behaviours of our customers is that they are highly “toxic” to our team.
As the leader, there are several steps that you can take to ensure that your staff can effectively handle the best and the worst in these customers.
So Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating #GettoKnowYourCustomerDay
- Discuss the types of customers that your team may encounter ahead of time.
What are some of the common complaints that your staff may face? Share past experiences and horror stories with each other and prepare answers and solutions ahead of time. Preparation allows your staff to feel more confident in dealing with these difficult customers and not absorb the negativity.
- Teach your staff how to keep their composure, be assertive and know exactly what it is they want to communicate. Help them to get comfortable with those customers who need to vent and express themselves – however let them know that they do not need to tolerate abuse.
As the leader, you play a very important role in preventing customer negativity from rattling your team.
Looking for resources to build your resiliency? Check out my Live Smart blog at worksmartlivesmart.com

Wednesday Apr 17, 2019
EP 207 – Mustang Sally
Wednesday Apr 17, 2019
Wednesday Apr 17, 2019
It debuted at the World Fair on April 17, 1964. It was featured on the covers of Newsweek and Time magazines and appeared on the silver screen in the James Bond movie “Goldfinger” that same year.
Here’s another hint: It was built for the working man and it sold almost 400,000 in the first year.
What am I referring to: The Ford Mustang and today is the day that all Mustang owners and enthusiasts celebrate.
So Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Ford #MustangDay:
My husband and I own a 1965 Mustang. Sally is numbers matching, which means that she is in her original condition. She is part of our resiliency tool belt, as during the summer months, we take Sally out for drives in the country. Mostly to find a good ice cream cone or to enter her in a car show. Driving around is about savouring the summer.
Whether you're into gardening, fixing up vintage cars, or even soduko puzzles, research has found that #hobbies are just as important to good health as exercise is, thanks to their ability to relieve stress.
The study, published in the Annals of Behavioral Medicine, found that people who engaged in leisure activities were 34 percent less stressed, reported feeling happier, and their heart rates was lower.
It didn't seem to matter what the participants did just so long as it was something they deeply enjoyed.
So on this day of celebrating the iconic Mustang, find something that you enjoy and be immersed in it. Your health will thank you for it.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com

Tuesday Apr 16, 2019
EP 206 – Would You Wear Your PJs To Work
Tuesday Apr 16, 2019
Tuesday Apr 16, 2019
No need to get dressed up for work today. You can ditch the shoes too. Today is wear your pjs to work day, along with a pair of fuzzy bunny slippers.
For me, I regularly wear my pjs to work. 15 steps down from my bedroom and 15 steps into my office and I am at work. And since I am the boss, there is not a dress code. Unless, I am going out to speak somewhere, then, I shower up, beautify and dress in my best.
Whether or not you want to wear your pjs to work, today is a day to ditch the stress. Focus on self-care and let loose.
So Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Wear Your PJs To Work Day:
Have fun with this day. Many celebrities, radio stations and tv shows are celebrating, so why not you? Have your own pajama party at work. You may want to ensure a few rules, such as ensuring appropriate body coverage. Give prizes for the loudest pajamas or the craziest designs.
The fun people at Zappos have an official Wear Your Pajamas to Work day during their annual Spirit Week as a way of building in fun, and relaxation.
If the day has passed and you didn’t wear your pjs to work, put them on as soon as you get home. For me, there is nothing as relaxing as a cozy, comfy pair of pjs. My kids know exactly what to get me for my birthday and I love all of them. In pajamas you can be yourself.
Pjs are also great on Saturday mornings by the fire while camping. Sundays that are lounge all-day days. How about Pjs, a movie and hot chocolate or ice cream or other wonderful treats.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com

Monday Apr 15, 2019
EP 205 – I’ll Do It
Monday Apr 15, 2019
Monday Apr 15, 2019
The most rewarding experiences that I have had have come from volunteering. Especially my time developing youth groups, being on boards for various charities and associations, and fundraising for my children’s sport programs. In fact, I would guestimate that about ¼ of my time is given to volunteering.
Over a quarter of Canadians aged 15 and over volunteered for a charitable or non-profit organization last year. And though we think of women volunteering more than men, men contributed more volunteer hours on average than women.
Volunteering is a way of connecting yourself to the larger society and connection is critical when it comes to dealing with the sources of stress that we face.
By far the most commonly cited barriers were those related to time.
So Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating National Volunteer Week:
If you are a #volunteer, talk about your experiences to others. Positive role models are needed, especially by our younger generations.
If you are looking for volunteers for your organization, be clear about the expectations, make commitments short and ASK. Many have difficulty holding up their hand to volunteer, but would say yes if asked in person.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com

Sunday Apr 14, 2019
EP 204 – Find The Positive In All Of The Negative
Sunday Apr 14, 2019
Sunday Apr 14, 2019
The war continues in the east. Oil prices are skyrocketing. Crime is on the rise. Global warming may bring about disaster….
If you have listened to the news or read the newspaper, you would think that the world coming to an end may not be such a bad thing. We get bombarded every day with negative news stories. Often to the point where we see the world as a very difficult place to live. For some, it may get to the point of wondering why any sane person would bring a child into this world.
All of this negativity has an impact. It impacts our outlook, our relationships and our health. #Negativity is contagious and a major health hazard.
We need to balance these negative news stories with positive and inspirational stories. Positive stories and experiences have a positive impact on our health. A recent review of more than 160 studies on the connection between a positive state of mind and overall health and longevity has found that happier people enjoy better health and longer lives.
So Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating National Inspirational News Week:
We need to be informed and I am not suggesting that we keep our ‘head in the sand’ when it comes to difficult issues. But make sure that you don’t get sucked into the negativity that is around you.
Be proactive and look for the positive ‘stories’. Share these stories.
And if you have children, watch what you share with them. We can easily skew their perception of the world if we only share the negative. Inspire them with stories of how others have taken on a difficult situation and found ways to overcome.
Remember: Negative breeds negative and positive can inspire positive.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com

Saturday Apr 13, 2019
EP 203 – Controlling Conflict
Saturday Apr 13, 2019
Saturday Apr 13, 2019
April celebrates Conflict Awareness Month.
Celebrates sounds like a funny word to use when we are talking about conflict, but there are benefits to conflict including:
Becoming aware of issues within your team
Encouraging change in the way things are done
Stimulating creativity and bonding as you work to solve the conflict
And Promoting decision-making.
#Conflict becomes difficult to manage when personalities hinder the process.
So Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Conflict Awareness Month:
Understanding why some team members become more difficult or negative, and when they are more likely to act that way, can prevent that build up of tension from happening, that may prevent the team from productively solving the conflict.
So why are people difficult?
For some, negative attitudes and behaviours are expressed when they are stressed out and just don’t have the energy to use better communication skills, judgment and manners.
Our goal is to stop rewarding these irritating behaviours. To do this, we must understand what employees expect to gain from being so difficult. Some want to feel more in control. Some want to feel important and listened to, and some want to avoid outright conflict, but will act out their annoyance or disagreement through other negative behaviours. By finding the strategies to meet their needs and lower their stress, they may be better able to focus on solving the conflict.
The difficulty behind these attitudes and behaviours is that they are highly “toxic.” It is important that we practise good self-care so that our stress doesn’t add more negativity to the situation.
Want to find more strategies to coping with stress and dealing with conflict, check out my website at worksmartlivesmart.com

Friday Apr 12, 2019
EP 202 – Walk On Your Wild Side
Friday Apr 12, 2019
Friday Apr 12, 2019
Do you walk on the wild side?
Or have you given in to the every day routines of life?
Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Walk On Your Wild Side Day:
Take the Walk On Your Wild Side Challenge.
Use this day to plan something out of the ordinary, unusual or even extraordinary.
Better yet, don’t plan something, just do it.
It doesn’t have to be something dangerous, just a bit quirky or different from the everyday.
What about spraying your hair your favourite colour?
Or dressing up like a famous rock star or movie character?
Or maybe it is to get up on stage and belt out your favourite tune at a karaoke bar? How about the 1972 song, Walk On The Wild Side, by Lou Reed
Let yourself be free and unencumbered.
Share the moment with #wildside and encourage others to add more joy to their life too!
PS My most recent wild side display was going to a big-hair 80’s band concert…dressed in authentic garb of the day.
Looking for more tips to build your resiliency? Look for my book on Amazon called Stress Out. 52 Weeks To Letting More Life In

Thursday Apr 11, 2019
EP 201 – Mental Health Boosting Power Of Pets
Thursday Apr 11, 2019
Thursday Apr 11, 2019
Research shows that pets can provide excellent social support, stress relief and numerous other mental health benefits.
Pets can be there for you in ways that people can’t. They can offer love and companionship, and can be the best antidote to loneliness.
Pets can increase your sense of purpose in life. Researchers found that elderly people who owned pets had better everyday well being than those that didn’t own pets. When you have meaning and purpose, you are less likely to feel depressed, isolated, and lonely.
Pets connect to our nurturing side. Pets learn to sense emotions from humans. If the human is withdrawn the pet senses that something is wrong or different and attempts to change the human’s behavior.
So Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating National #PetDay:
If you have a pet, take the time to be focused while in their presence
Today is the day to create public awareness about the plight of many different kinds of animals awaiting a forever home
One simple thing that we can do is to assist an ill, elderly or a financially struggling neighbor or friend by purchasing pet food, hay or needed items for their pets.
No one should be separated from their pet family member when they need them the most.
Looking for more ways to build your resiliency, take my free on-line vulnerability test at worksmartlivesmart.com under the resources and courses tab.

Wednesday Apr 10, 2019
EP 200 – Celebrating Siblings
Wednesday Apr 10, 2019
Wednesday Apr 10, 2019
It is usually the longest relationship in our life. If you have brothers or sisters, then you will know that rivalry and love can exist in the same relationship. Siblings are a part of who we are, and that shared history is what makes this relationship so valuable.
Did you know that research has shown that healthy sibling relationships can significantly benefit us later in life? The quality of sibling relationships is one of the most important predictors of mental health in old age, according to The American Journal of Psychiatry. Research shows that people who are emotionally close to their siblings have higher life satisfaction and lower rates of depression later in life.
An agreeable relationship between siblings isn’t always a given. It takes work.
Today is the day to let your siblings know how much you appreciate them. Sibling Day is a way of honouring that special bond that can exist between siblings.
So Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating National Siblings Day:
- Post a photo with your siblings using the hashtag #NationalSiblingsDay
- Reach out and share a special memory of the two of you growing up together
- Plan for connection time and share goals. Aging changes us into vastly different people, and it’s entirely possible your sibling might not even know who you truly have become as an adult. Open up, share, and learn about each other
- Finally, just as you might regularly tell your spouse or partner you love them, siblings need those reassurances too.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com

Tuesday Apr 09, 2019
EP 199 - Make A Friend Not Foe
Tuesday Apr 09, 2019
Tuesday Apr 09, 2019
Have You Ever Had A Dog Bite You?
I was only two. In my mind, I vaguely remember being in our living room with my mom while she was crying and talking on the phone to the hospital. I remember being in the emergency room. And before all of this, I have a fleeting memory of being out at the barn and our dog. Somehow, our dog thought that I was going to steal his food, though I had been out there numerous times. On this particular occasion, he snapped at me and bit me, just missing my eye.
Even the calmest, most loving dog can get snappy when sat on, stepped on or when they feel fear for themselves or their family.
My experience could have left me scarred in many more ways than just the one that I carry on my face. Today, I am a dog lover. I don’t fear them, but I do have a very healthy respect for them.
So Here are today’s Hot Tips For Protecting Yourself And Celebrating Dog Bite Prevention Week:
The Canadian Safety Council estimates that in 70% of dog bite cases the victim knew the dog. Parents need to teach their children how to interact safely with Fido.
NEVER disturb a dog who is sleeping, eating, or caring for puppies.
NEVER pet a dog, even your own, without letting him see and sniff you first.
Dogs that haven’t been properly socialized, receive little attention or handling, or are left tied up for long periods of time frequently turn into biters. Be a responsible pet owner.
Properly train and socialize your dog, and teach it submissive behaviors like giving up food without growling.
#Cynophobia is an irrational fear of dogs. If you find that your fear of dogs is excessive and you can’t easily avoid them, seek out the help of a professional counselor, psychologist or psychiatrist.
For more information on coping with #mentalhealth issues, sign up for one of my on-line courses at worksmartlivesmart.com under the resources and courses tab.

Monday Apr 08, 2019
EP 198 – Sleep Tight and Don’t Let The Bad Energy Bite
Monday Apr 08, 2019
Monday Apr 08, 2019
Getting a full night’s sleep is up there on the list of things that can make you an energetic, happier person. That quality and quantity can be impacted by poor feng shui in your bedroom. By being aware of some of the principles of feng shui, your bedroom can promote healing, love, and energy.
So Here are today’s Hot Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Feng Shui Awareness Day:
Meeting the #fengshui bed guidelines starts with a solid headboard, good mattress, good frame height, and no storage underneath.
Choose Your Bedroom to be at the back-end of your home. The back-end of our homes are usually much quieter and your sleep is less likely to be disrupted.
Position your head so that you can see the door and have your headboard against the wall. This gives you a subtle sense of security that’ll help you fall asleep easier. The feng shui commanding position is the area furthest diagonally from the door, but not in line with it.
Only have things that bring you joy and help your energy
Work and sleep don’t mix, so avoid work-related furniture in the bedroom.
Get rid of “light pollution” that causes sleepless nights. Use black out curtains if necessary.
Remove all electronics from easy-access to your bed, and you can find your sleep quality improve.
Keep your bedroom free of clutter including underneath your bed. A clean and organized bedroom is more visually relaxing and less likely to invoke frustration and agitation that lower your sleep quality.
Feng shui is often misconstrued as a complicated, confusing process, however, just follow a few basic principles. Keep clutter at a minimum, have plenty of natural light and fill your home with rounded or curved furniture to allow energy to flow more freely throughout a space.
Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com